Is it possible this girl is different?

[falconslax89]

i know probably not, and before anyone says i have oneitis..i dont. i am still gaming other girls while talking to this one..

heres how its gone so far. i met this girl in my english class. she walked in the first day and sat right next to me. she smiled and we talked a little bit. shes probably a hb 8. i facebooked her and sent her a message telling her she was the only name i remembered from class and i needed help on an assignment. te next day i got her number in class.
she came over to my house one night and my friends were over smoking. she said she loved weed but couldnt smoke during the school year but she eventually did. we all watched a movie and ended up passing out on my coach until the morning. no chance to hook up because i was literally out cold, i dont know about her.
she left in the morning and later in the day text me saying "ive decided your real..i like real" i didnt reply.
i didnt talk to her for a day or 2 over the weekend even though she text me several times...she went home for the weekend so i ignored her for the most part.
she came over to my crib on monday night, we put a movie in, and then started making out. we went to my bedroom, i tried to finger her but she kind of pulled my hand away. she sucked my **** and i got her topless (i was happy with my bra removing skills, i was afraid they might be a little rusty.) she got on top of me and did that dry humping **** that girls do. she was getting off to rubbing her ***** on my **** through our underwear so maybe she was on her period...i dont know.
anyway at first i just wanted to **** this girl, but after spending some more time with her im starting to really like her personality. im used to dating dumb, ditsy girls and she is very smart. she has good morals and is all about helping other people. she organizes charities and volunteered in Haiti last summer. she goes to church reguarly, but isnt preachy religious and doesnt push her beliefs on people it seems. ive only heard good things about her from other people and know she is not a slut. she doesnt party very often and said she prefers to just drink with her friends. she is very bubbly and very girly, just the type im looking for. she wants a man and i can give that to her.
i know with no doubt that she is very into me. constantly texting me, inviting me to hang out, touching me..its obvious. i am not going to go AFC here or anything but the fact is that I would rather be in a relationship then hook up. i havent had a GF in over a year and I want one. maybe not something really serious, but someone to have fun with and know we are exclusive. i am always ****y with her. i neg her all the time and it always works like magic. she loves it and i dont plan to stop.
is there any chance that theres no need to play games with this girl, or is that just a crazy notion? i know she wants me...what should i do??

 

[YoungSir4sho]

No she is not different.. The minute u go afc on here and start to pay more attention to her is the minute she will drift away. Tho if she is feeling u that much then be aggressive and make her your girl. It's really that simple. Ask her or better yet tell her hey u kno u my girl now so let all them other dudes know that u taken.. That's it.

 

[falconslax89]

No she is not different.. The minute u go afc on here and start to pay more attention to her is the minute she will drift away. Tho if she is feeling u that much then be aggressive and make her your girl. It's really that simple. Ask her or better yet tell her hey u kno u my girl now so let all them other dudes know that u taken.. That's it.

no no i wont go afc, should i make her my girl this soon i guess is one of my questions

 

[YoungSir4sho]

Me personally and Ive been in alot of relationships. I would have sex with her first then right after make her your girl. Wateva feels right for u tho is what matters. If u can be patient n wait it n continue to spit game then go ahead. Me I'm patient but only to a certain extent. Usually takes a few days or a week tops before I make a girl my girl.. Of course that is only if she is worth my time n proved to me that she is wifey material.

 

[falconslax89]

Me personally and Ive been in alot of relationships. I would have sex with her first then right after make her your girl. Wateva feels right for u tho is what matters. If u can be patient n wait it n continue to spit game then go ahead. Me I'm patient but only to a certain extent. Usually takes a few days or a week tops before I make a girl my girl.. Of course that is only if she is worth my time n proved to me that she is wifey material.

thats how ive always felt but ive gotten the idea from here that even if you find a girl like this it you should still be working other girls and it that it should take several months to become exclusive. do you disagree?

 

[YoungSir4sho]

I disagree with the taking months to be exclusive when there is an opprotunity to make her your girl now or soon. I agree tho with still working with other girls on the side. I would make her my girl n still talk to others on the side. If u two become serious down the road then end it with the side chicks.

 

[Kailex]

i know with no doubt that she is very into me. constantly texting me, inviting me to hang out, touching me..its obvious. i am not going to go AFC here or anything but the fact is that I would rather be in a relationship then hook up. i havent had a GF in over a year and I want one. maybe not something really serious, but someone to have fun with and know we are exclusive. i am always ****y with her. i neg her all the time and it always works like magic. she loves it and i dont plan to stop.
is there any chance that theres no need to play games with this girl, or is that just a crazy notion? i know she wants me...what should i do??

Your results are due to the "game" being played. As soon as you lower your guard and become something else, she'll dump you. She's with you BECAUSE of the game's interaction between the two of you, not in spite of.

It's a crazy notion.

If it isn't broke, don't try fixing JACK. You're doing it right, keep doing it. And yes, this sounds dangerously close to oneitis, because you're asking "What should I do next?" which prompts me to believe that you are in fear of losing her, when it should be the other way around.

Yes, she wants you. She wants the man doing the C&F, Neghits, not texting all the time, playing it cool and collected. Keep doing that.

I don't see why you would ask us what to do next when you already seem to have it down. Kick that AFC within you that wants to resurface and tell him that a MAN is in charge of the situation, this ain't no Valentine's Day story.