"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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is it possible for short people to be dominant?

supajsilver2

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I did see something on TV where it put a 5'2" or so tall 20 or something year old guy behind one of those glass things that's only see-through on one side, like in police stations you know, and brought in chicks about his age to look at him. The guide told the chicks he was the world's youngest billionairre a few years back, owned 3 companies, played and excelled at 4 sports, has a mansion, etc. and asked the chicks if they would date him. Allllllllll of the girls said, "Well....he's um, he's just a little...you know, too short, no, I don't think I would." It's not a good situation to be in. Dominance is hard to acheive as a short guy, but likeability seems easier to me (if you're a funny guy. who doesn't like a funny short kid, come on). Confidence is right. Good luck.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dirtyvibe

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One of mystery's instructors is 5'3
 

Charm

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It's been said here already, confidence and being cool, relaxed and fun to be around is what will win for you in the long run.

I was 5'1 in highschool until my senior year when I grew to be 5'4. Between 17 and 22, I grew 6 more inches and am now slightly taller than 5'10. I grew late, it did suck at times being so much shorter than girls (and some of the big ones were mean to lil guys like me) but eventually you grow out of it and see the bigger picture.
 

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Just to put things into perspective:

The world's most renowned pickup-artist started out as a glasses-toting, balding, pale, short, jew.

Then turned himself into Style, probably the most famous pickup artist in the world, but he's still short as hell.

The answer to your question: an emphatic YES.

-Damian
 

itishe

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Damian said:
Just to put things into perspective:

The world's most renowned pickup-artist started out as a glasses-toting, balding, pale, short, jew.

Then turned himself into Style, probably the most famous pickup artist in the world, but he's still short as hell.

The answer to your question: an emphatic YES.

-Damian
What's this have to do with anything?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dominatly fighting wise? hell yes, I whooped this dude twice my size's ass in the middle of lunch, what a great day it was.if you mean dj'ing wise. I hear women prefer taller men, but Its not a neccesity, do womens hieght matter to u that much? I dont think they pay too much attention to it.
 

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i dont tend to go for girls who are taller than me, i am around 5'85.
Depends whether you want success with them, i remember reading a tip about this, just ignore that they are taller than you and carry on with what you do with all girls.
Some of you may find it intimidating though, having a girl staring down at you while you try to talk to her, it only happened to me twise and it didnt end up pretty.
 

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This may or may not help you. But then again what will?

Around my 14-15's my doc told me to stand completely straight with my back against a wall. I didn't shoot up like Shaq... but im not Mugsy Bones either... althought Mugsy isn't that short compared to non-atheltes... well anyway you get the point.
 
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