Is it possible for men to cheat?

[BlueAlpha1]

I took a lot of inspiration for my own blog from solvemygirlproblems.com, where a now retired blogger named "shark" got down to real nitty gritty of the SMP and sexual dynamics.

One of his main theses maintained it is virtually impossible for men to cheat, since our biological imperative is to spread our seed to as many women as possible to expand on our legacy. As such, if we have children with 10 different women in a lifespan, none of their legacies are threatened by the other 9 women whatsoever. This is why women like alpha males, due to preselection instincts. A woman only wants a man other women want. It seems like a responsibility to our current woman to have a lengthy sexual past.

On the other hand, if a woman cheats on a men, he instantly is downgraded from alpha to beta and his entire legacy is threatened by the other man. The more partners a woman has, the more damaged she is and the less valuable her fertility.

In this contemporary world obsessed with male cheating and diminishing masculinity, I'd probably be shamed into obscurity if I said this in public but it begs the question.

Is it even possible for men to cheat? Has our imperative changed with our culture or does instinct reign supreme? I'm going to post about this on my blog this week.

Discuss.

 

[mangotot]

In life, the only person you can cheat on is yourself. And you do that by failing to be authentic. Everything else is non relevant.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Only fools care about 'genes' when you are dead you are dead,you will be forgotten in max 4 generation.What matters is happy life, legacy as children dont matter,children are for support when you are older not for some silly legacy.If you want legacy and not be forgotten you must create masterpiece or do something groundbreaking.

You dont win life by spreading your genes, you are more than stupid animal.You win by being happy and having amazing life.

Some best people in history died childless yet they will be remembered forever.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Yes, now please dump that ROK **** in to the nearest dumpster

 

[logicallefty]

I have cheated on one woman 1 time, once and only once. I felt so bad after that I literally could not look at myself in the mirror for many weeks, and dumped the woman only because I could no longer make eye contact with her anymore. I don't know how these women can cheat like they do and then go home to their husbands/BFs like it's nothing and have no remorse or regard for what they just did.

 

[Tictac]

If humans are no more than animals, then no it's not possible for either men or women to remain monogamous.

Deny consciousness if you like. It's a fool's errand.

 

[El Payaso]

Men only had many children with multiple wives back then because they needed the extra manpower on their farms and with many other day to day duties like hunting, fishing, food gathering and other house chores. It wasn't uncommon for a man to have up to 20 children. It was a necessity at the time.

Children were needed in huge quantities because the man and his wife could never farm enough land to produce enough harvest to sell in the market. In addition, the Earth's population was very small at the time. So populating it was of utmost importance. There was also more than enough resources to go around.

These days, all that is no more. Over population, diminishing resources, rising cost of living, inflation etc.

If you feel like you have more than enough resources to care for a dozen children then no one will stop you. Feel free to impregnate as many women as you like and either marry them or write those welfare checks every month.

 

[zekko]

Of course men can cheat. It's just wishful thinking to think they can't. Be realistic. This isn't 500 B.C.

If you feel like you have more than enough resources to care for a dozen children then no one will stop you. Feel free to impregnate as many women as you like and either marry them or write those welfare checks every month.

I get a kick out of the guys who say that if you are a true alpha, the women you impregnate will not hit you up for child support because you are such an alpha jerk @sshole that they don't want you influencing their children anyway. And also because you are such an alpha fux worthless piece of crap that you don't have any money anyway (can't bleed a turnip). So they let you walk.

 

[jurry]

^^

Also disease or poor medical knowledge killed like half the kids anyway so if you wanted 3 you had to have like 6.

 

[stevo]

Yes, ofcourse a man could cheat.

You see when you promise your primary lover that you'd be faithful and you hold an expensive ceremony to inform the world of your commitment to each other, if you lay another lover, that's cheating.

Fore fathers barely made those promises, they see a girl they like, they fcuk her raw, she gets pregnant, she moves from her family home into the man's cottage or compound while the man continues the process with the next lady that catches his eyes. Women were there for the taking. Their primary desire was to be chosen.

The title then meant monogamous only for the women.
Now the title means monogamous for both
With the way its going, shortly the title would mean monogamous only for the men, sad but true. Feminism is almost the only thing on tv shows and cartoons today.

Women of today their primary desire is to turn you into a beta, to flip the script on you. They want to be the man, eventually.

So comparing today's men and women to our fore fathers is gradually becoming comparing apples to oranges, we have little resemblance by the day.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

I have cheated on one woman 1 time, once and only once. I felt so bad after that I literally could not look at myself in the mirror for many weeks, and dumped the woman only because I could no longer make eye contact with her anymore. I don't know how these women can cheat like they do and then go home to their husbands/BFs like it's nothing and have no remorse or regard for what they just did.

You mentally very weak and you should work over yourself.

Cheating is essential to keep ltr or marriage going.Nothing makes your woman more sexy after you fvcked somme pvssy on side.Marriages and ltrs die mostly because of boredom ... there is saying no matter how hot girl is there is always somebody who is tired of fvcking her.

 

[Starwolf]

I have never understood this need for creating a "legacy" by having offspring..

First: Does anyone here remember Einsteins parents? Who was Nikola Tesla's father?
do you remember the grandfather of Isaac Newton or Christopher Columbus?

no? nobody knows about these people? so much for legacy...

second: If you do have a child who becomes the next Einstein why should you get any credit the extraordinary efforts of your child? all you did was stick you penis in a vagina and raised what came out. ( news flash everyone does it )

and No.. you don't get credit for an exceptional job at parenting. ( cuz again news flash everyone thinks they are a great parent )

Third: What makes you think your offspring will be special? Look at the amount of people born. Most of them are nothing but mouth breathing resource wasting herd following morons :yes:


Your Ego is a dangerous thing gentlemen.. learn to contain it.

 

[logicallefty]

You mentally very weak and you should work over yourself.

Mentally weak for having morals? GTF over yourself. WOW. How old are you, 15?

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to JohnyTheArrow again.

Lucky for you I +REPed you recently, because today's would have been a rep of a different color.

Damn. This is the craziest thing I have seen on SS to date.

 

[BrainDamage92]

Well while having the GF living with me for a long time Id **** on the side like for a good session then when she comes back Im twice as hard couse shes my wifey (basically she was using me for shelter and didnt want to leave even when I tried to kick her out but too hot ). Ofc she was a stupid ho but still:

- you shouldnt do stupid **** like this and it shows your relationship isnt working;

- still, people say, you need a woman to raise your kids and a another to have fun with to be happy so I kinda get where they come from

Still very very interesting sensation when you **** some slut then a couple of hours later your girl couse you give your best out of guilt

But its ****ed up. Couse all that good doesnt lead to good. :}

Think with your upper head is my advice BUT I know I dont always follow it

So having a wifey + one more regular on the side is a good formula BUT you need to be big to pull it off ;]

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Mentally weak for having morals? GTF over yourself. WOW. How old are you, 15?

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to JohnyTheArrow again.

Lucky for you I +REPed you recently, because today's would have been a rep of a different color.

Damn. This is the craziest thing I have seen on SS to date.

If you can't handle mental stress connected with lies and guilt then yes your mental toughness is low, it has nothing to do with silly 'morals'.If you would have strong 'morals' you would never cheat but you did and most probably you would still do if you could handle the pressure.

Man who never cheats is a man who subdued his natural instinct and natural desire.It is not healthy and not normal.Most people sooner or later cheat because monogamy is not normal.If somebody claims he is happy fvcking same person for 10,20,30 .. years lifetime he/she is talking Disney fairytales to appear 'moral'.

To desire multiple people is perfectly normal.You have been brainwashed by religion,media and society to believe if you stick to one vagina at a time you have superior morality.
I would feel more guilty about not throwing away trash from home than about cheating.You just relaxed yourself outside boredom of ltr thats it, not a big deal.You overreacted by dumping gf IMO.

 

[logicallefty]

If you can't handle mental stress connected with lies and guilt then yes your mental toughness is low, it has nothing to do with silly 'morals'.If you would have strong 'morals' you would never cheat but you did and most probably you would still do if you could handle the pressure.

Man who never cheats is a man who subdued his natural instinct and natural desire.It is not healthy and not normal.Most people sooner or later cheat because monogamy is not normal.If somebody claims he is happy fvcking same person for 10,20,30 .. years lifetime he/she is talking Disney fairytales to appear 'moral'.

To desire multiple people is perfectly normal.You have been brainwashed by religion,media and society to believe if you stick to one vagina at a time you have superior morality.
I would feel more guilty about not throwing away trash from home than about cheating.You just relaxed yourself outside boredom of ltr thats it, not a big deal.You overreacted by dumping gf IMO.

If that's your opinion, which you are entitled to, are you also implying that it's OK for any woman in a LTR with you to cheat on you?

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

If that's your opinion, which you are entitled to, are you also implying that it's OK for any woman in a LTR with you to cheat on you?

Lies only hurt if you know about them.If she is pro at keeping it secret then I dont know and I dont care.I would prefer her to cheat on me and be more happy than be faithful and unhappy.
Because if woman is unhappy she will make your life a hell.

 

[logicallefty]

Lies only hurt if you know about them.If she is pro at keeping it secret then I dont know and I dont care.I would prefer her to cheat on me and be more happy than be faithful and unhappy.
Because if woman is unhappy she will make your life a hell.

That is a very weird position on the issue. The part about unhappy women making your life hell is truth, I agree with you on that one...

My thought is, "Ok if it works for you, but don't go down on her" :crackup: :crackup: (Reference http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=217034)