"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it possible for a normie to do any type of decent macking while living in a van?

MatureDJ

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I was watching this, and it got me interested:


my opinion: I just have to think that the type of woman that would be OK with this situation would be extraordinarily ugly, since at the very least normie-tier men must do a certain level of betabuxing, and living in a van connotes very, very low bux. That said, I could see a Chad-tier man banging some nice poontang - and such that the same woman that would call a normie living in a van a "loser" would call a Chad "adventuresome" for doing so. :mad:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A friend of mine is a ‘normie’ (short, hapa with a decent face & good personality). Lives in a van (down by the river). He seems to get it when he needs it. Kinda of a MGTOW. (Bad divorce) though).
 

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"Van Life" is a real thing and people don't look at it with the negative stigma as living in a trailer home. Girls would probably see an adventurous lifestyle kind of guy with decent survival skills. There are young yuppies that are digital nomads that travel the US in a $120k Sprinter RV vans. Also tons of females doing the solo van life thing now adays too getting tons of views on youtube.

I watched Trent and Allie for a bit because they took their van and travelled all of South America. Something I wanted to do if I could.

It's a fad at best just like tiny homes were but it's something that's cast in a positive light due to choice and lifestyle change and not born out of necessity and poverty like people that end up living in trailer parks.
 

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The "man" in the video is very soy-ish. I don't see him spinning plates anytime soon. Maybe he can get some hippy young girl with little self esteem and no aspirations in life to tag along with him as a girlfriend.

Also this whole outdoorsy/van life/festival life/burning man culture is a different sexual market place. If you're going to be a hippy, you still need to be a hippy version of Chad. The guy in the video is trying to create an illusion of status as an adventurer/bike ship owner (which might help a little with some mediocre girls), but he looks like he could barely bench press the empty bar. I can see below average women and no abundance in his future.

Also, most women is alternative sexual market places join them because a 5/10 girl turns into a 9/10 girl in a different sub culture. A girl who is average in real life puts on some crazy makeup and walks around topless at burning man suddenly gets all this attention she never got in the norm world. And she's the hottest one there now because normal girls don't go to burning man. And she is still going to only be attracted to the most Chad-like guy there.
 

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I was watching this, and it got me interested:


my opinion: I just have to think that the type of woman that would be OK with this situation would be extraordinarily ugly, since at the very least normie-tier men must do a certain level of betabuxing, and living in a van connotes very, very low bux. That said, I could see a Chad-tier man banging some nice poontang - and such that the same woman that would call a normie living in a van a "loser" would call a Chad "adventuresome" for doing so. :mad:
Oh, you know it. If he had weed and a tv they'd be chilling in the van getting high and fvcked.

For the purpose of this website stop hating chad and get your body game up and a cool life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Also this whole outdoorsy/van life/festival life/burning man culture is a different sexual market place. If you're going to be a hippy, you still need to be a hippy version of Chad. The guy in the video is trying to create an illusion of status as an adventurer/bike ship owner (which might help a little with some mediocre girls), but he looks like he could barely bench press the empty bar. I can see below average women and no abundance in his future.
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