"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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is it possible for 20 yr old to game 30-40 yr old women?

thechosenone2190

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are 30-40 yr olds within my league if im 20 yrs old? is it easier or harder than girls near my age? has anyone had prior experience with this? if this has already been discussed before, could someone direct me to the appropriate link?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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thechosenone2190 said:
are 30-40 yr olds within my league if im 20 yrs old? is it easier or harder than girls near my age? has anyone had prior experience with this? if this has already been discussed before, could someone direct me to the appropriate link?
They def are in your league and they def are easier. They're more open to casual hookupss, more experienced and waayy less bs than younger girls. Latelly older women have really been catching my eyes, especially the ones who still got it. Cougarss are my new favs!!
 

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i'm also very interested in this question... i had a 35-40 year old banker hitting on me a few weeks back, i'm only 19 so it kind of caught me off guard... she could have just been a really nice person but now i get it, she was def hinting at something... damnn.
 

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It's pretty much possible. I've "dated" / banged a 30 year old, 35 year old and made out with a 46 year old. It's perfectly possible. In fact, I really enjoyed the older women as they're much more experienced, better in bed and know how to please you. I've only had 1 young(er) girl(22 yo) provide the same quality as these older ladies did, the rest of the girls just wasn't up to par.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zarky said:
No, but it is possible to put yourself in a position where they game you.
And how do you go about doing that aside from relying on luck?
 

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I went to a club once, I was 22, and she was 31, not that big of an age difference, but still. I just used my normal approaches and techniques, she asked if my place was near by...and needless to say we left the club before last call. Regardless of age, their still females who want to f***. If anything act more goal oriented or make up a solid career.
 
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