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Is it okay to be blunt with what you want to a slut?

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I've been hanging out with this girl for the past two nights in college and each night we've made out pretty intensely. Problem is last night I guess she kind of got annoyed that that was all we were doing and she said she was tired and had to go to bed. We both came out of the room and went our separate ways, only to meet up later outside a few minutes later. She was saying that her roommates were partying in her room so she came back out and she was all over me again and she pulled me aside and even though she didn't say it, she implied that she wanted to go back to bed with me. I was drunk at the time and I felt that blow to my ego when she blatantly said she was too tired (even though I know that was BS) and she really just wanted someone to **** her, so I told her good night and went to bed at 4.

Anyway, now that I've sobered up a bit, I'm contemplating just texting her "Come over, I want to **** you". I'm wondering if I should just be blunt to this girl to tell her what I want, or would that turn her off? I feel like for most girls it would, but she's a slut and down to earth and wants my jock, so would that be a turn on for her?
 

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Hell no, dont do that... first of all you are texting which shows insacurity and on top of that you show no emotion when texting. I think you might be able to pull it off if you actually call her and flirt with her before you say something like that... make a comment about her ass or something and than ask when you gonna let me tap that or you should come over to my room i am bored than just close the deal. I am sure you could have closed the deal last night based on what you just said ... GL.
 

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In my experience, if you dont jump on a chick when she wants you to, you almost always blow it. Not always, but you get my point. You should have nailed her when you had athe chance.

DONT be blunt now! You might have to start over with her, if you even still have a chance.
 
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Well she's been texting me all day and I've responded to about half of the texts, she just texted me that she's going to finish off the rest of her rum from last night and invited me (seriously, getting drunk on a Sunday night? Come on. Classy she is not.). I still want to tap, though, so I guess its safe to say I'm getting another chance?
 

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flyingpanda505 said:
Well she's been texting me all day and I've responded to about half of the texts, she just texted me that she's going to finish off the rest of her rum from last night and invited me (seriously, getting drunk on a Sunday night? Come on. Classy she is not.). I still want to tap, though, so I guess its safe to say I'm getting another chance?
Stop being such a pvssy, man the fvck up and go fvck her. She's giving you a-ok signal for entrance to her pvssy. An excuse to drink with you on sunday is an excuse to fvck. If you pvssy out again you can count that she won't call you again.
 
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