Is it okay to allow the Ex-GF to come running back if...

[girlsarecrazy]

We mutually dumped because our relationship was getting too serious. We couldn't go out with our friends without worrying about one another and it affected relationships with other people. We got stuck in a bubble.

The summer was coming up and we wanted to be worry free but still thought we can hang out sometimes.

She told me her feelings did not change, and the she thinks she needs some space before our life revolves around each other.

My feelings didn't really change for her either but i started to talk to her less and ignore her more often. She called me still and messaged me. So i asked her what do you want? Then we decided to actually hang out on Wednesday.

I think now that we both know what we don't want this summer: A Serious Relationship. I thought we could start fresh and know not to get too close and get back to that bubble we were stuck in.

Ideas:

*I still want a sex life
*She doesn't want to hook up with randoms like any other crazy summer
*I assume she still wants me around.

I'm thinking our relationship could start turning more physical and less emotional?
We still will have each other and be happy.
What do you think?

 

[girlsarecrazy]

(Read update above!)

 

[Obsidian]

If you don't want a serious relationship, then just use her until you can find someone better - like she's trying to do with you.

 

[girlsarecrazy]

We both are not trying to find something better though. We think we should be together, just not in a bubble.

 

[Desdinova]

It almost sounds like you only want her as a fvck buddy (no strings attached sex). Am I correct?