"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is It Ok.....

SexinEar

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Is it ok to feel afc for a girl inside without showing it on the outside? There's this girl I just started hitting on, and let's just say that this girl is my ideal girl, shes adorable. Your all gonna say I have oneitis, but i've been doing good from the start of the gun. It's not like i'm pussing out with this girl, been doing kino, c&f, being above her all that crap lol. The day after the first time I ever talked to this girl shes smiling at me in the hall and said hi. No girl is gonna do that unless theres some form of intrest. She also fixes her hair non stop and is like droping stuff out of nervousness and biting pens haha.

I neg'ed this girl like crazy in the class, told her she had eye liner on her face and kept telling her she was making it worse and worse by whiping it,,,,ended up getting the infamous smile and the why are u so mean. I'm pretty shure this girl likes me, and i'm feeling afc but i'm not showing it, so u think i'm set?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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o0..

So, you've been talking to a girl, and she likes you back and you got all giddy inside...

Sure, ok, ask her out or something?
 

Mr_rogers

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I don't think it's a bad thing to feel affectionate toward a girl, so long as you don't come across as weak and stuff. Just be careful once you've asked her out (if you decide to).
 

KillaCam

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Well..it's okay I guess.

But it all means nothing if you don't ask her out.

Ask her out, then assess.
 

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Ah this feels too good to be true. I mean if I worte down every detail of what i wanted out of a girl, this would be her. It sounds like oneitis, and maybe is, but I want to get the point across to all of u that I am not being weak and pussie around her. The next time I see her is on wednesday, which is in 4 days and I think the right thing to do would be to ask her out for that saturday opposed to friday, right? Then I gotta figure out what the damn date is gonna be, damnit, any suggestions for that one. I was thinking movies but that seems a little cliche.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lol...i just found her myspace earlier today and added her, a little bit after she puts up a new picture of her all made up and sh.t even more than the other ones. Learning from all my mistakes, I will leave absolutely no comments at all and not in any way shape or form ask for her screename and fu<k it all up via aim haha.
 

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Well, you need first date ideas? You could ask her to go to dinner or a movie or both! You could also see if she would like to go to a coffee house with you. And if you can try to get her to go on a walk with you after the date, it's usually a good oppurtunity to get some more intimate kino such as holding hands, and maybe if you're lucky, a kiss. Good luck!
 
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