Is It OK to Say...

[Fela Kuti]

stuff like:

"I can't afford losing you"
"I miss you so much"
"You're the missing piece of my life"
etc.

to your GF if you really mean it? I don't mean to sound stupid by asking this, I'm only afraid that it will only inflate her ego and take me for granted.

 

[Stuntmann]

What do you think? You've been here long enough to develop your inner mackfoo, yet the question?


I bet you spend most of your time with one female since discovering the art? Grab an a55 and hold on to it?


Why can't you afford loosing her? I see no legitimate reason for that. Have you any idea how many women there are out there? Have you any idea how many of those women are BETTER than your tired old girlfriend?

Why do you miss her soo much? You forgot how to use your right hand or how to pickup other women!


She's the missing piece of your life???? So you NEED her. You're needy greedy bastard that misses her all the time and can't afford loosing her. Give her that power as you worship her down on your knees - like a fool. Trust me, she wants a prince, not a fool.




If you show her those things, if you already haven't, or continue showing them to her - that's saying that without saying it. Then you're a prince.

 

[Fela Kuti]

but doesn't some women need words of reassurement?

 

[Ace of Flames]

but doesn't some women need words of reassurement?

No. Not like those they don't. Just saying you love her is enough, but only if its true. And not all the time either. You have to say it rarely so it means more when you do.

 

[MMA Juan]

Actions speak stronger than words. If she's oblivious to see how you show her affection and care for her through your actions, then that makes her an idiot for taking that for granted.

However, if she knows how you feel about her through your affectionate actions, and she still seems to want to verbally hear it for "re-assurance"- then don't give it to her; it means she wants you to put her on a pedestal. Always remember: you want her but don't need her

 

[J-Bone]

What do you think? You've been here long enough to develop your inner mackfoo, yet the question?


I bet you spend most of your time with one female since discovering the art? Grab an a55 and hold on to it?


Why can't you afford loosing her? I see no legitimate reason for that. Have you any idea how many women there are out there? Have you any idea how many of those women are BETTER than your tired old girlfriend?

Why do you miss her soo much? You forgot how to use your right hand or how to pickup other women!


She's the missing piece of your life???? So you NEED her. You're needy greedy bastard that misses her all the time and can't afford loosing her. Give her that power as you worship her down on your knees - like a fool. Trust me, she wants a prince, not a fool.




If you show her those things, if you already haven't, or continue showing them to her - that's saying that without saying it. Then you're a prince.

AMEN! I got nothing to add he said it all.

 

[kdnash82]

I have yet to tell my girl that I love her. To me, that's a powerful statement. Not saying that I don't love her, because I do. I just refuse to say it. I express my feeling in actions. She knows I lover her by the way I treat her, and she throws it in my face everytime I don't say it.

This actually took place one night.

Her: I love you baby.
Me: *silence*
Her: *silence*
Me: *silence*
Her: Well, I know you love me.. You don't have to say it.
Me: * I kiss her on the forehead and continue watching tv*

Becareful about the words you use around women. It can come off as needy. I had one girl (that I'm banging) tell me just yesterday that the guy she was seeing sent her a text message saying that he missed her. She said it came off as clingy and that she needs someone secure with themselves.

 

[DJ1234]

why don't you try this and come back to us...then you'll know if its ok or not..

 

[Scars]

I usually only say that stuff when I've ****ed up.. like really bad. Aha.

 

[Obsidian]

if she's just returned from a long trip, it might be appropriate to say that you missed her. The other two statements...no, don't say them.

"I love you" is fine, but only after she says it first and only after 2 months of dating her.

 

[The Juan and only]

"Should I say this, should I say that?" It's all inevitably unimportant.
You attitude and paradigm is the true key. If you know what you stand for, you'll always know what to say.

However,

It depends on the girl and the relationship. We have here, as always, a huge generalisation both in terms of the woman and the relevant brand of accord [type of relationship].

Actions speak louder than words. So very true.

As long as you act like the man, I say it doesn't matter. Uttering sweet nothings in her ear when you truly mean them is absolutely fine, even nice. In the longer term women need to see that they're getting somewhere with you, and that a stronger bond between both parties could exist.

p.s Nice to see you ace! Haven't seen ya on here for a while. I 'member you from back in tha day man:rockon:

 

[Ace of Flames]

p.s Nice to see you ace! Haven't seen ya on here for a while. I 'member you from back in tha day man:rockon:

Juan! I should say the same to you. Been a while. Glad to see you're still around. :cheer:

 

[smooth guy]

stuff like:

"I can't afford losing you"
"I miss you so much"
"You're the missing piece of my life"
etc.

to your GF if you really mean it? I don't mean to sound stupid by asking this, I'm only afraid that it will only inflate her ego and take me for granted.

Dude...I keep making of fun of guys who talk like that with chicks. I had this conv with a lot of girls and they all said they hated guys who talk to them like that. Sometimes I even imitate these guys and we laugh our asses off...chicks make fun of these guys too.

So what do you think?

Get the basic principle. Be the prize...when you talk like that you're giving the female power and she becomes the prize.. = will lose interest.