"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it ok to move on girl your friend is after?!

TinZ

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My good frien is after this girl, but she has none of it. I talked to her about that, he wants her, she doesn't . I know she likese
Me. Don't know what to do. I realy respect him, I told him to go cave man style with her or he is gone loose it with her. He does not wana. Now my pimp friend is cruising around her, don't know what to do!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks for reply, but it's not about me. If my friend is after girl I respetp it . Let him go on, but I spoke to her if she likes him that way she, said no. I was masculine tonight and if I "pushed" hard enough I could take her, but I got principals in my life and it makes it hard for me. Anyway they all left me in club now, so I gues that's it
 

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Yah. The way you phrased your initial question was straight up beta fag. If you respected your boys and his target you wouldn't have even asked. You woulda shrugged and found your own target knowing it was poor form and drama inducing feminine BS. I see you.

I was out a few weeks ago with a buddy and I was killing it with his target, she was laughing and started touching my arm. That was que to get the hell up and move on. It wasn't my target. I went and got my own. I'm no desperate fag willing to backstab friends for poon.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok warrior I respet what you said and I do agree with you . Its just hard to let go a tail when you see they are interested .saying that its hard to make a move she is solid 7. I have never done **** like that, that's why I'm asking .
 

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Anything is acceptable so long as you are prepared to deal with the consequences.

You move on your friends girl, you may lose a friend.

You also may get a reputation as a backstabbing snake, making it difficult to make friends in the future.

Is one girl of questionable value worth that?

Are you so desperate for action? Do you have so few options that the ONLY girl you can get is one that can potentially DESTROY your friendship, and any trust you have?

Now, if you two were on a desert island and there was one glass of water left, that'd be one thing. Kill or be killed.

But last I checked, this planet still had plenty of available women that were fairly easy to game.
 

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@otoko I now what u Are saing, I'm not that kind of guy and I never have been, I hope never will be. That's the reason I asked for advice from you guys, even though I know what the answer shoul be.
 

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I just finished 4.5 year relation ship with a girl, because I could not stand it any more. I still love the women, at least I think ( but it does not bother me too much).at the moment. But I wana get gaming, but I gues not at the expense of my friend.
 

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TinZ,
Making moves on a Friends Girl is completely unacceptable,always has been always will be!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She was not his girl, he wanted her to be. She did not. I made it clear with her before. I don't role like that, I put my neck on line for my friends, when I consider them to be wort it. I got few beatings for that ****, when u stand up for your "friend" . "
 

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She didnt even wana go out clubbing at the first place, I was the one to convince her to go even I was not sure weather I would go. I wana make It clear, I'm not back stabing ***** and I never will be. I can be AFC sometimes with girls but I'm never with my friends. U are in ****, and u are worth it as a friend I stand up for yaa. But the problem is , I'm starting to question everyone around me. I can't recognise true friends and just hangers
 

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I'm just thinking ditching everybody, although there are some decent ppl that I know. Just thinking braking up the circle with ppl I know. Just go solo, I know one thing I'm good like that, I can be strong if I wana be or need to be. I can be cun.t to ppl when I switch ,most likely I'm gona end up moving to another country again and start from the beginning again.
 
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