"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is it ok to be a loser?

LiveFreeX

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Canada seems to think so:

http://ca.sports.yahoo.com/news/can...nated-women-39-slopestyle-081014414--oly.html


From the comment section you'd think she won the race, a complete let down to the entire country, yet 'spencer' is lauded as a hero. Why are people so afraid of calling out other people?? If everyone wins all the time, the games become boring. I think this is just more generation special snowflake shining through. Would the reaction be the same for a man who places dead last? I highly doubt it.

She makes front page while in the men's competition Canada comes in third and you have to dig the story out yourself.

http://ca.sports.yahoo.com/photos/canada-at-the-sochi-2014-winter-olympics-slideshow/

something stinks here.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Didnt you know these women are strong and empowered and can do anything a man can do? That is big news.

Watching the US-broadcasted Olympics makes you think the entire thing is figure skating and women's sports.
 

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Its ok to be a loser if you are a woman no doubt about it. The most important thing is that "you gave it your best". You get sympathy left and right.

Men on the other hand...just wait and see the outcry that will happen if the Canadian mens icehockey team does not get the gold medal.
 
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