"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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is it ok to ask a girl about other guys shes seeing?

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duke104

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theres a girl im kinda interested in...is it an off limits topic or is it ever ok?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No, it comes off as needy.

If things are getting serious and exclusivity is being discussed, then it might be appropriate. Otherwise play it cool.
 
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duke104 said:
theres a girl im kinda interested in...is it an off limits topic or is it ever ok?
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Yeah of course it's okay.

If you want to be friendzoned, that is.

Asking a girl specifically about other guys shes dating puts yourself in the position of HER girlfriend.
You're coming from the position of "I'm wondering what other guys have done with you because I don't have the BALLS to start doing things myself."

That's what it portrays subconsciously to her.
Not those specific ideas, but she'd feel like you're coming from an insecure position, as if you had spoken that out loud.

You can however turn it into c&f by asking her stuff like: "Who was the WORST guy you've ever dated?"

And then make fun of her for having bad taste in men.

If you want to try this, I suggest you write some c&f lines yourself and post them here for some feedback. Before you can really become a master, you have to be prepared for everything, rather than trying to wing your way through.
 
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