Is It Ok If GF Getting A Massage From A Man?

soulforge

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How do you guys feel about your Girlfriend getting a body massage, by a male masseuse?

I know the masseuse, he's a good looking guy, however he is getting married soon and has a woman.

The only thing that concerns me is this... From time to time I massage my chicks neck and she tells me that she feels like she is about to c.u.m haha because it feels that good

So would you be ok with a dude massaging your girlfriend?
 

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Not okay with it.
Perhaps she needs a real man that is secure in himself to have his wife, gf, etc be rubbed down by another man.

Conversely,
It takes a real woman to accept me going to get rubbed down by other women.

She gets equality or chivalry but doesn’t get both.

Her actions, tone, decides what she gets from me.

Now if you excuse me I’m going to get rubbed down by my girl friend who is a professional.

I’m going to have girl friends if I want.
I’m going to do it.
You are jealous, possessive and insecure.
You women are all the same.

I need to take a break.
 

soulforge

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Not okay with it.
Perhaps she needs a real man that is secure in himself to have his wife, gf, etc be rubbed down by another man.

Conversely,
It takes a real woman to accept me going to get rubbed down by other women.

She gets equality or chivalry but doesn’t get both.

Her actions, tone, decides what she gets from me.

Now if you excuse me I’m going to get rubbed down by my girl friend who is a professional.

I’m going to have girl friends if I want.
I’m going to do it.
You are jealous, possessive and insecure.
You women are all the same.

I need to take a break.
Huh what
 

soulforge

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It is not appropriate for another man to be feeling up my wife. I don’t know why you guys try to rationalize the indefensible.
I kinda feel the same way about this. When I have massaged her, she has told me that she feels like c.u.m.m.i.n.g.

Another man with his hands all over her body isn't something I feel comfortable with
 

Macadellic

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Go to massage parlors.
Let your wife, gf, whatever be the one that starts threads on forums about

“My husband, bf, etc. goes to get rubbed down by woman… is this okay?”
 

Macadellic

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This is normal. You should never be okay with another man rubbing down your woman.
What’s the big deal!
It’s just a massage!
You need to relax!!

Is what she says^^

Okay cool no big deal,
I’m going to get an 8 hand massage from Korean girls be back babe.

I love equality
Everything she can do I can do better
Yes I can!

Yum yum god bless equality
I want more
 

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I'm not happy about it.. but I don't want to come across as insecure either... But in all honesty it's something I don't like, because the guy who is doing the massage, I know him
Stop caring about “coming across as insecure.” That is female manipulation. Kill off that guilty gene.

I don’t feel guilty at all. My wife is well taken care of, so there are boundaries she has to respect. The alternative is her going back on the streets with all the single, miserable, “hard working” broads.
 

soulforge

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Stop caring about “coming across as insecure.” That is female manipulation. Kill off that guilty gene.

I don’t feel guilty at all. My wife is well taken care of, so there are boundaries she has to respect. The alternative is her going back on the streets with all the single, miserable, “hard working” broads.
What if I tell her its not acceptable and she goes anyway or creates drama?
 
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