"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is it ok for your girlfriend to "like" other guys on fb

Von

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This is a paranoid thread... would you freak out if she likes à guy picture.. thanyou find out its her brother

Gotta admit its interesting. Would you as a guy start liking girl pictures other than your dates and ltr?

Personnally, I dont use facebook anymore but any great pic deserves à "like" lol

Its normal à girl find things other than you attractive. Like i find other girls attractive. It's like devilking said... you gonna control the stare?

I recommend not caring, max ask à question and see her answer than move on into the LTR or plate.

Making à joke (sensé of humour is always à goodway to go)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fleecebook "likes" have been one of the most dastardly and insidious inventions of the modern age, encouraging even the most well-meaning girls into being an attention wh0re.

Likes should be abolished here for similar reasons.

And as much as i'd want to agree "social media behaviour is completely meaningless", so that it's one less thing irrelevant to care about, i've found that to be far from the case in the field.



The ultimate key to success with women is to stop being a co-dependant b1tch of a man wherever possible.
It mostly depends on situation, there's a difference between liking a great picture and liking every post a guy makes.

As long as she isn't leaving flirty comments or messaging them or trying to give him IOIs it's nothing to worry about.
 

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The ultimate key to success with women is to stop being a co-dependant b1tch of a man wherever possible.
Yep. Giving these social media clowns too much gravity is a sign of co-dependence. As I've said before, high value people don't need to (consistently) market themselves online; because genuine high value speaks for itself. I might change my profile or post something every 3 months or so. Otherwise I just use it to chat in groups.

I would wager that (at least in certain age groups) there is in fact an inverse proportion between the amount a guy gets laid and the amount of time he spends fcking around on social media.
 

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Deesade & TMK are right!

I've got many stories like @deesade actually!

If you are in an LTR and your GF is 'liking' a guys pictures, it isn't good!

She's telling another dude he's hot with an audience for fvcks sake. I post an update on social media about once a year & to chat in groups!

I fail to see how this is someone being 'insecure'. It is poor behavior, which could be enabled by low interest, but whatever. It's still a red flag!
 

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This thread needed a fresh gasp of air.
my boy going through this issue as well with his less than a year gf starting to like pictures of other men on instagram and facebook.
I told him get it sorted or walk, you only got two options.
Days back I decided myself to walk away from this chick because she had the same disgusting habit of liking some other c0cks on social media. We weren’t exclusive but that to me was a beaming red flag and I’m not planning to be there for the boom.
I ran a make on her social accounts before I took her more serious and man was I disappointed. I lost that LTR attraction for her like a gust of wind just piercing through me. I gradually nexted her like some dim lights.
Honestly, I don’t even enjoy having company of such women now a days. Even my plates now I like them more conservative even it only means having less than 2
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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