Is It Normal to MISS a Plate?

[slickaz]

so she's going for 4 months overseas for work.

and she's been a plate. a good one at that.
and i feel like im going to be missing having her around.

is that normal?
i know i can replace but....

advice?

 

[rushing dude 123]

i really don't know what everyone else is going to write, but yes its ok to have a heart lol. 4 months seems like quite a long while and if its not commited then u can do ur thing and see how u feel when she comes back. Sometimes though the sudden loss of something can cause u to make hasty decisions and give a exaggereated feeling of loss (something i have quite a knack of being a victim of but i am working on it). So again time will tell and i think u may have to keep ur options open in my opinion because for all u know she may really like it there and stay there after the 4 months is up. remember to take things slow though dude, u will appreciate in the long run. Just don't want u running to the antartica (hey it cud happen lol) to propose to her haha.

Hope that helps.

 

[slickaz]

thanks man, appreciate it.

yeh she's going and i shouldnt feel anything but, i feel like im going to miss a friend and obviously more.
im not looking for a relationship from her so its all good.

i do have another chic who is pretty keen on an LTR so ive been focussing on that, but this one going is kinda making me reconsider.

coz if i like 1 enough to get into a relationship, then why would i feel like i didnt want #2 to leave?!

anyway thanks agian