"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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is it normak for a sales clerk at macys to ask

DJnoob

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for your name lol? this happened because she helpedcme for 30 mins. lol..i know..im pathetic...im just not used to this yet after losing weight.
 

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I know some of them get paid on commission. Perhaps that had something to do with it.
 

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If you were there for 30 mins she got slightly personal to help you decide on the purchase and get the sale done. It's nothing more than that. Common sales technique of establishing a connection with the buyer…
 
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Every time I go to an upper scale department store to make a significant purchase (a suit for example), the dude helping me asks my name. Does he want to bone later?

Learn to read signals better.
 

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There is no such thing as "normal" in the dating game. You'll learn this as you do more dating.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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