"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is it more difficult for good looking guys?...

tmpgstx

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I come off as a really good conversationist and have charm and wit - a really funny witty type of humor that just comes naturally - say making fun of something etc or talking in jest, reminicing and so fourth.

You then have the problem of coming off as too smooth almost like a politician to some girls - so they think you lie! I rarely lie and if i do it's about something nominal at best. So breaking it down:

If you come across as ****y: You're an *******

If you come across as smooth: then you're like a politician or lier (same difference to most people) - or a 'player' as some girls may put it

So in essence, your looks dictate to someone a percieved personality about you before you say a word!

It's usually the girls who aren't as secure with themselves that will 'label' you this way. Girls that have more self-esteem better realize that it's a good thing and some very good character traits in being funny and charming. Good looks are just a bonus, not a dam precursor to pre-judgemental bullshyte as to support some gals lame insecurities.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
I come off as a really good conversationist and have charm and wit - a really funny witty type of humor that just comes naturally - say making fun of something etc or talking in jest, reminicing and so fourth.

You then have the problem of coming off as too smooth almost like a politician to some girls - so they think you lie! I rarely lie and if i do it's about something nominal at best. So breaking it down:

If you come across as ****y: You're an *******

If you come across as smooth: then you're like a politician or lier (same difference to most people) - or a 'player' as some girls may put it

So in essence, your looks dictate to someone a percieved personality about you before you say a word!

It's usually the girls who aren't as secure with themselves that will 'label' you this way. Girls that have more self-esteem better realize that it's a good thing and some very good character traits in being funny and charming. Good looks are just a bonus, not a dam precursor to pre-judgemental bullshyte as to support some gals lame insecurities.
Yep, Basically. with some girls, its a Lose - Lose situation.
 
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