"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is it more difficult for good looking guys?...

tmpgstx

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I come off as a really good conversationist and have charm and wit - a really funny witty type of humor that just comes naturally - say making fun of something etc or talking in jest, reminicing and so fourth.

You then have the problem of coming off as too smooth almost like a politician to some girls - so they think you lie! I rarely lie and if i do it's about something nominal at best. So breaking it down:

If you come across as ****y: You're an *******

If you come across as smooth: then you're like a politician or lier (same difference to most people) - or a 'player' as some girls may put it

So in essence, your looks dictate to someone a percieved personality about you before you say a word!

It's usually the girls who aren't as secure with themselves that will 'label' you this way. Girls that have more self-esteem better realize that it's a good thing and some very good character traits in being funny and charming. Good looks are just a bonus, not a dam precursor to pre-judgemental bullshyte as to support some gals lame insecurities.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
I come off as a really good conversationist and have charm and wit - a really funny witty type of humor that just comes naturally - say making fun of something etc or talking in jest, reminicing and so fourth.

You then have the problem of coming off as too smooth almost like a politician to some girls - so they think you lie! I rarely lie and if i do it's about something nominal at best. So breaking it down:

If you come across as ****y: You're an *******

If you come across as smooth: then you're like a politician or lier (same difference to most people) - or a 'player' as some girls may put it

So in essence, your looks dictate to someone a percieved personality about you before you say a word!

It's usually the girls who aren't as secure with themselves that will 'label' you this way. Girls that have more self-esteem better realize that it's a good thing and some very good character traits in being funny and charming. Good looks are just a bonus, not a dam precursor to pre-judgemental bullshyte as to support some gals lame insecurities.
Yep, Basically. with some girls, its a Lose - Lose situation.
 
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