"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi guys,

I got a question. Lately I've been getting very bored of girls. Everytime I go out with one it's just not that fun. Now I meet new and different girls every week, go out with them and then never call them back because I don't want to go out with them anymore.

Lately I feel like staying at home on friday and saturday nights just doing my own thing. There are some girls that interest me but not enough so where I want to spend time with them more than once a week.

I know quite a few are interested in being my gf but I'm not sure if I want a gf just yet. But the thing is that I don't want to wait too long before the see that it's hopeless going after me. Something like this did happen to me. This girl was very interested and went after me for like 3 months. I only show a little interest and she gave up. Now I'm starting to like her, probably cause she lost all interest in me and I see that as a challenge.

Anyway I'm just wondering if I'm going through some phase. I use to be an afc but now I get my fair share of girls. However when I was an afc, I had a goal to be around girls, even now when I can have my pick, I feel that I don't need to be around them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chicks are not the be all/end all that the AFC thinks they are. If you are living your life the way you want, eventually you will meet one that you want to spend time with. If not, don't kid yourself into thinking you need a woman... cuz they are there. You ARE the prize... remember? The woman has to fit your criterion... if they don't... do your own thing.
 
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Maybe you ought to have a think about just what you want out of a relationship?

Sounds to me like you're looking for more than just good looks... decide what it is what you want and go after it.
 
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You've just reached the point where you no longer define your worth by whether or not you can get a woman. You aren't "needy" and are comfortable with your own company. That's a good state of mind to be in. You don't HAVE to date all the time, either. If you meet someone you really click with and want to spend time with, then date them, but don't feel like you have to power date all kinds of women you really aren't very interested in.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I appreciate you guys replying. Well I’m certainly not going for looks anymore. Most of the girls I date tend to just as good as the other one so beauty is hard for me to differentiate. As far as personality goes, I’ve notice that most girls don’t have what it takes to intrigue me. I’m surprise at how many girls are just as clueless about the game as every other guy out there.

The thing is that a few of my relationship occurred after the initial meeting. I wasn’t attracted to them at all in the first place but their personality grew on me and we started dating. I’m just hoping that I don’t make the same mistake by letting some of these girls go just because I wasn’t feeling like going out all the time.
 
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After you get tired of crawling like a baby, walking becomes the next new exciting thing to do. After you get bored with just walking running becomes the next exciting thing to do, and after you walking, a bike, after a bike a car. The brain gets tired or "full" of any experience dont repeatly and will look to do something different, or better. Everything about life is about evolving, and when you begin getting girls after a while you need to do something else to stimulate your mind. Set new goals.

ps. This is why guys lose their girls to the next guy, because you begin to do the same thing over and over again, they get bored, and seek to do something new with the next guy. Dont get mad because every human being does it, how many times back to back do you think you can listen to your favorite song before it no longer becomes your favorite song, or anything else for that matter. Women like routine 1000 times less then men do. If there are 60 bars in your town, don't keep going to the same one becuase it's "our spot".
Learn to do different things after you have passed the last stage.
It should be a, b then c, not a, b, then a,b, then a,b again. Nor should it be a, b, x. Don't skip stages but dont stay stuck on them either.
 
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