"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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IS it me, or is the any thing else forum the most interesting theese days?

backbreaker

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sosuave, at least the general forum has really fallen off.

It's like 90% of the posters can't get past approaching women, even though we have a 100 page sometime masterbook on the subject, and a search button that has over 1,000 posts on the topic.

Then, you have peo ple giving contridicting advice, and even worse, contridicting advice, when both people are wrong.

You have posts about fat people, and in the middle of the fat people post, a woman somehow starts talking about her man that got killed... i am not knocking the man, but in the middle of a fat people post?


There are posters.... who are not new, asking what "were friends" mean...



You have people STILL trying to plot to steal GF's from guys, and rationalizing it.





You know what I propose?

Everyone should take a test on the DJ bible... until you have read it and made at least I say a.... B on the test, you can't make a post. That would cut out a hell of alot of the bS
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PiHiPlaya

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I had the exact same idea about a year ago. The mods said it would never happen:mad:
 

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IT SHOULD... it really should.... It's just off the chain now..


I remember when i first came here, around 4 years ago, there weren't as many posts, but 80-90% of them were great posts, made sense, and there was no disputing rather or not the advice was sound, solid advice.

Now, you have guys who mistake beign an "Alpha" male for being a jerk, or even worse, and AFC-insecure "fake" alpha male/jerk.

Guys that have read 100 posts and think they know everything in regards to women.


I try to read 4-5 posts from the DJ Bible every day, and I do read at least one of pook's posts at least once a day, even if I am in a hurry. I almost have them memorized.

There are only a hanful of people i would listen to here... I know them, but their names aren't as easy to spell as pook.


That's not because I only like them... it's because most people don't know what they are talking about, or it's ovbious that most guys here have no experience.

I mean, you have a woman here that knows more about being a dJ (Wyldfire) then most of the guys!

Yes, you might cut down the posters, but you will up the quality content.


For isntance, a guy roasted me for sleeping with a married woman around a year ago, I mean, got on me bad... First of all, that's my decision to make, and I didn't even make a post saying should I sleep with her, it was a different situtation. But the thing is, I don't believe in marriage, and even then I wasn't going to **** her but she litarly pulled my **** out and started giving me a handjob... you can't get a better signal than that.

Guys rationalizing masterbation.

IT's just a crying shame how far this board has went down (but even with that, it's still hands down the best of it's kind)
 

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there should be a forum only select members can post in. New members to this "secretive" forum should be voted upon.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Julian
there should be a forum only select members can post in. New members to this "secretive" forum should be voted upon.
thats the mods corner and between allen and the other mods thats who votes them in haha
 

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ha a quiz could easily be made with one of those quizmaker websites. Great idea.

There also has to be some guidelines before one makes a "tips" post. Such as must have been sexually involved with attractive desirable women and must have had sex. At face value you'd be confused but if you personally knew a lot of the people regularly posting tips or giving advice to people you'd understand what im saying.

Guess what, I personally know regular tip posters that are virgins, have barely been with women, or have little experience with women. And guess what they're trying to give you advice, once they think they learned something that would make you reward them as "great post" "sounds insightful" they'll post it up and act as if they are experts. Despite the fact it could be inhibitory or harmful to those inexperienced. There are also those giving financial advice to adults that have no business experience besides reading rich dad poor dad or are even high schoolers. I could easily call out names, but I wont. Just take it for what its worth
 

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ifer? I this the only forum that I regularly read on this board. Even when I get tired of all the so suave garbage and take a break from here, i sneak back and read the "anything else" posts. I'm past learning techniques to pick up women, past playing alpha for a day, neg hitting, mental kino:rolleyes: , and the pieces that make a pick up artist. Truthfully, I'm not even interesting in meeting any women, I dont have time.....
 

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I joined back when this forum was tan and blue, the first-generation members still posted regularly, and the main page was still black. I first found out about the site in 2000 and spent a year learning the basics before I joined the forum.

the place sure has gone to hell since then.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Page
I joined back when this forum was tan and blue, the first-generation members still posted regularly, and the main page was still black. I first found out about the site in 2000 and spent a year learning the basics before I joined the forum.

the place sure has gone to hell since then.
great story :)

i agree that anything else is the most interesting forum these days.

But i find this to be true because i am past the stage of learning from others, but not at the stage i can give great tips. Advice i can give, but it tends to be the same as 95% of other people here, because we all learn from the same tips.

Therefor, until my game really develops into that of a master PUA i don't think anything besides AE will interest me.

HOWEVER there is a certain club i'm a member of through this site which is making my game improve in leaps and bounds, and is probably exactly what all guys who are at my level need, rather then getting to a good/comfortable level and stagnating, you need something to push you to master PUA.

want more information on this club?

sarge. and post the reports.
 

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This is a lost cause and the mods don't care. If the mods truly cared why have they banned so many of the best posters this forum has ever had (for example player supreme/puerto rican lover)

you talk about reducing the number of afcs that post, PRL got banned for his confrontations with afcs that were provoking him! so really the mods are in the side of the know nothings rather than the people that give good advice.
 

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Originally posted by backbreaker
I REMEMBER WHEN THE HOME PAGE WAS BLACK :)
indeed. It had the little e-mail thing. And there was no ****ty header with the fat chick and guy.

it was like black with red/orange/yellow streaks or something I believe. yeah, those were the good old days.


WHAT THE FUKK HAPPENED
 

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
ifer? I this the only forum that I regularly read on this board. Even when I get tired of all the so suave garbage and take a break from here, i sneak back and read the "anything else" posts. I'm past learning techniques to pick up women, past playing alpha for a day, neg hitting, mental kino:rolleyes: , and the pieces that make a pick up artist. Truthfully, I'm not even interesting in meeting any women, I dont have time.....
yeah preach on man! That's how I'm beginning to feel. I visit the anything else forum and health/fitness forum. High school/general....BOOOO

oh and you can't forget the bible.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
MAVEC (yes aka Mental KINO) is a very advanced technique that takes a lot of time and practice to master. :cool:
******** translation: It's a game of numbers and you might catch a girl outta 100 if you jerk your eye brow a few times to the left.
 

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I usually like the "Anything Else" discussions cause I'm not at SoSuave for women anymore. This forum opened my mind to a LOT of other things, which are more important to me now :)

I wonder what would happen to my life if I didn't find this place... :D
 

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Originally posted by djbr
I usually like the "Anything Else" discussions cause I'm not at SoSuave for women anymore. This forum opened my mind to a LOT of other things, which are more important to me now :)

I wonder what would happen to my life if I didn't find this place... :D
Same here. I wouldn't consider myself a master ladies man yet, but same story. Once you get the main concepts down (be a man, control your destiny, you have to approach if you want to get laid, it's inner game that matters, etc), the threads about building the life you want are more interesting. Maybe it'd be different if there weren't so many weak threads in the other discussion areas. From how some of the vets here talk it sounds like there used to be more productive discussions in the women sections.
 
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