"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i've been hangin out with an ex and when something comes up that i can throw in a remark about our past sex life she always responds with something like "ew thats gross" or "stop, i'm goin to throw up" etc.and i just laugh it off or say something like you would hate anythin sexual but laugh it off like whatever.

example: tonight we were in her room and i commented about how she still had the same bed comforter. she said its so soft so i go "thats because we broke it in" and she's like "omg thats so gross, you have to leave now so i can throw up" again i laughed and she was like just stop, dont say anything else about it.

the way she makes the comments is in an ok dont talk anymore about us that way tone. once i laugh it off or brush it off, she's fine again, back to her nomal self.

i dont understand why she does this? am i repulsive to her or what?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's hard to tell whether she's kidding or not just by your posting it here, but I'd say you need to stop hanging around this b1tch. Don't be friends with an ex unless you're the one who dumped her. Don't flirt with her; just let her go. LTRs (marriages specifically) are perilous enough nowadays when the girl has HIGH interest level. There's absolutely no reason to settle for a low-interest woman.
 
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cNfny said:
i've been hangin out with an ex
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It's you. Normally, I'd blame the woman, but if you're hanging with an ex you're asking for trouble.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd say it is as simple as she doesn't want you to talk about your past sex life.
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but why is that? does it mean there's no possibility of a new sex life?
 
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NO, you stupid ass! There is no chance for a new sex life with this girl. While you're hoping a wishing it would come true she's already looking for sex with someone else. (or is having sex with someone else and is very happy about that!)

Even if she isn't she clearly doesn't want to have physical relations with you. If she doesn't initiate sex talk or flirt with you (and i might add she'll probably flirt out of attention and ego boosting) she does not want you.

Signs that say STOP are passing you by. You need to open your eyes and take a look.

Stop being so pathetic.
 
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