"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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is it just me or does anyone else think...

xomel

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Is it just me or does anyone else think that there should be more posts on seduction and less on self improvement?

-Matt
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cheatz

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If you believe that, then I think you missed the entire point of the DJ Bible. The reason why there is a constant discussion about self-improvement is because the seduction and women come with the transformation. It's a self-fullfilling phrophecy.
 

Microphone Fiend

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Originally posted by xomel
Is it just me or does anyone else think that there should be more posts on seduction and less on self improvement?

-Matt
yea I agree with you here. It seems like people go off on this tangent and get further and further away from the reason they came to the site. There is self improvement to help yourself feel better about yourself, and then there is self improvement to make yourself feel more confident around women. The latter isn't as neccesary as this site entails, because it will happen with exp.
 
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Upper right hand corner of your screen: Search.
There's a lot on the site about seduction...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJoneday

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I see where he's comming from, lately this site has had a lot of self improvement posts, which will help a lot with seduction, but also i'm sure people here are still discovering new techniques of seduction, and i'll second that i havn't seen too many all out seduction instead of self improvement posts lately.
 

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There is a lot about seduction back when SS and NLP was hot...guys comon take that "Not in use" sign off your brain and search!:p

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www.seductionscience.com
 
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