Is it just me or are nowadays many woman not ltr material?

[Barrister]

Almost all women you see on OLD are not LTR material. Probably north of 95%. Maybe a rare case who gets on after she just exited an LTR herself, but even then there will be red flags.

IRL is much better, albeit still nothing like it was even 20 years ago. Maybe 10-15% of the women are LTR material. And this doesn't necessarily make them more permanent relationship material (i.e. marriage) -- just that you could sustain something with them.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Did it got worse or better over time?

Probably worse

I have met a decent amount, but so far almost all woman I encountered had some sort of redflags. Is it just me or are there genuinely not many good ones around anymore?

Welcome to modern dating, its like looking for a needle in a haystack. Indeed, there are genuinely not many good ones: They are few and far between and most of them already got paired up young.

Going back to the needle in the haystack: You have to burn the haystack. But its easier said than figuring out how to apply this metaphor to a real life problem.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Almost all women you see on OLD are not LTR material. Probably north of 95%.

This. Seems about right.

 

[Solomon]

Almost all women you see on OLD are not LTR material. Probably north of 95%. Maybe a rare case who gets on after she just exited an LTR herself, but even then there will be red flags.

IRL is much better, albeit still nothing like it was even 20 years ago. Maybe 10-15% of the women are LTR material. And this doesn't necessarily make them more permanent relationship material (i.e. marriage) -- just that you could sustain something with them.

I got a funny story on this. I was having lunch with a couple of buddies in 2022 and we were talking about online dating. One guy let's call him "Luffy" was like "Bro you just gotta match be a good guy and you'll get a girlfriend" mind you this guy hadn't done online dating in years so he thought it was like it was back in 2016-Tinder era

Fast forward a year later he had been on bumble now for a year and I asked him how it was going "man EFF these women, they are all flakey and don't know what they want, I got 5 on rotation right now..you gotta get what you can cause it won't last"

It's just hilarious how quickly he became red/black pilled after only using OLD for a year.