"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is it impossible to get laid while serving the Navy

Dhoulmagus

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I'm thinking about going that route after I graduate because of the opportunities and $$$ incentives. My parents told me to shoot for officer, but the recruiter tried to convince me to do the nuclear submarine option. It makes a lot of money, but seems like hell. I"m not trying to have sex with other sailor girls, but civilians in general.

It's either do navy or work in some corporate office in some middle of no where southern town or Atlanta which sounds like hell to me too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who Dares Win

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If you're joining a military force without being fully sure its already a mistakein my opinion, regarding getting laid it depends on many things, your look will surely get a plus if you wear a uniform...plenty of women are turned on from that, also your status will be good if you will be an officer.

Well if you chose the submarine option, the only hole you're gonna see are the ones in the surface and the ones between the legs of the other men, kinda like here

Also a nuclear submarine is like jail in the sense that you are forced to live in a very limited space and to eat crappy food, except for the company which is better in jail.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
If you're joining a military force without being fully sure its already a mistakein my opinion, regarding getting laid it depends on many things, your look will surely get a plus if you wear a uniform...plenty of women are turned on from that, also your status will be good if you will be an officer.

Well if you chose the submarine option, the only hole you're gonna see are the ones in the surface and the ones between the legs of the other men, kinda like here

Also a nuclear submarine is like jail in the sense that you are forced to live in a very limited space and to eat crappy food, except for the company which is better in jail.
What about a logistics officer?
 

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Other than starting bonuses (for the jobs nobody takes) and extra pay for additional languages you may speak, I hope you realize rank (technically, pay grade) determines your pay. And unless you happen to be a high-ranking officer, you're not exactly making bank. If you join the military, don't do it for money. I'm not entirely sure what you meant by "money incentives", so just throwing that out there.

Also, when you enlist in any branch (except Army), you get to pick your job field. Whatever branch you sign up for picks your job for you (within that field), so there's no guarantee you would get the job you want.

Personally, I'd try to become an officer, but either way you're gonna be stuck on a ship the majority of the time.
 
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