"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is it fair that thin, attractive women get more funding @ Kickstarter?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have a pretty cute attractive 29 year old sales assistance for this reason. Shes competent but i know how men think. The throught of being able to communicate with a single hb8 for a month is good bargining chip
 

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Studies have shown that tall attractive men get much more of their fair share of startup capital.
 

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There are always going to be double standards. It is what it is, in the past, they were just accepted - some benefited the man, and some benefited the woman. However, with the rise of feminism, these "women" want to do away with men's double standards, without realizing that, in doing so, they're shining a spotlight on their own double standards as well.

These days, I'm all for pointing out the one-sided double standard hypocrisy as a means for the acceleration of the decline of feminism, however, in all reality, I'm happy and content knowing that double standards do exist - and that men and women are different, and that's perfectly fine with me.
 

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When competing with an attractive women in the same endeavour, the woman will have a 25 per cent head start.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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