Is it EVER a good thing to do this

[Trump]

I'll respectfully disagree with most of what you said. I think the snapchats DID do something because she would no matter what always respond to me now all the sudden she doesn't after that.

What she has done before has NO bearing on the way she is acting now. NONE.

Also it's not that my ego is just so huge and I'm sleeping with actresses. I never said she was head over heels completely in love with me...? But I KNOW this girl cares about the snaps and went into jealous silent rage mode I guess because there is no other reason she would be ignoring me.

How do you know she didn't meet someone?
How do you know she isn't sleeping with a 6'1 basketball player?
How do you know she wasn't playing you and didn't really like you?

Don't assume the way she is acting has ANYTHING to do with her love for you.

I've had girls tell me they are absolutely 100% in love with me and we are one soul, one body, and they want to get married. Next day they tell me off because they met someone.

Also if the date didn't go well why would she bother contacting me first with enthusiasm for a couple days afterwards and agree to Netflix chill? Lol just doesn't make sense.

Because she had nothing to do.
Because she was bored.
Because you entertained her at that time.
Because her boyfriend was out of town.
Because she wanted to see how desperate you were.

How do you guys have girls dying to take pictures with you and even sleep with you, and then think like this? The real world would eat you up.

If it didn't go well she would be less attracted to me and not want to do all that stuff??? If I'm wrong about that then these types of communities are just getting even more confusing.

Again bro, "it" going well has nothing to do with ANYTHING. You entertained her and had sex with her. That's it.

Think about it: if this girl had such a great time and really really loved you, wouldn't she say "hey, I really like you and am uncomfortable with you being drunk and taking pictures with hot blonde girls at the bar Saturday night at 1 am. Please don't do it anymore because I am falling in love with you."

Her interest was mediocre at best, and you gave her a final reason to disconnect with your behaviour.

 

[MrJack]

What she has done before has NO bearing on the way she is acting now. NONE.



How do you know she didn't meet someone?
How do you know she isn't sleeping with a 6'1 basketball player?
How do you know she wasn't playing you and didn't really like you?

Don't assume the way she is acting has ANYTHING to do with her love for you.

I've had girls tell me they are absolutely 100% in love with me and we are one soul, one body, and they want to get married. Next day they tell me off because they met someone.



Because she had nothing to do.
Because she was bored.
Because you entertained her at that time.
Because her boyfriend was out of town.
Because she wanted to see how desperate you were.

How do you guys have girls dying to take pictures with you and even sleep with you, and then think like this? The real world would eat you up.



Again bro, "it" going well has nothing to do with ANYTHING. You entertained her and had sex with her. That's it.

Think about it: if this girl had such a great time and really really loved you, wouldn't she say "hey, I really like you and am uncomfortable with you being drunk and taking pictures with hot blonde girls at the bar Saturday night at 1 am. Please don't do it anymore because I am falling in love with you."

Her interest was mediocre at best, and you gave her a final reason to disconnect with your behaviour.

Alright again though, where have I said that girls are DYING to take pictures with me and sleep with me? They aren't dying too it just happens and I'm just saying this girl in particular seemed datable maybe that's why I thought different about her which is a mistake. I have a student mentality man I'm always trying to learn more.

Thanks for the criticism I welcome it

 

[devilkingx2]

I'd point out that a girl who can have low interest in a guy she is sleeping with is probably a hardened, jaded, experienced slvt

 

[Murk]

Lmao damn well I'm glad I'm not the only one who sometimes sucks at snapchatting

Sucks that they just decide to go cold shoulder even if you technically didn't do anything wrong.

What do you mean though that it just takes some charm/worming? Because obviously at this point I shouldn't contact her at all after trying twice. Do you mean IF she decides to eventually hit me up?

No you definitely need to leave her alone as others has said. I'm talking about girls that I've met or know through friends etc that are just pipeline bangs that get jealous, not girls I've just met and taken out on dates etc that is a lost cause imo unless she really likes you but that's hard to build on one date or two. That's my opinion anyway someone correct me if i'm wrong.

 

[AJ84]

btw always have sex as often as possible if you can.



today I learned that every time I go somewhere, meet a nice girl and take a picture with her to look cool on social media, we just dated.



the universal symbol for "lets fvck at my house" is relationship stuff? if anything relationship stuff would be seeing her with no sex involved (like when OP said he just took her home normally with no sex)

Shoe on the other foot: you just started spending time with a girl, you make plans to do something, before that something happens you see snap chat pics of her hanging off of other other guys taken after you last saw her. First thoughts? Maybe she was doing it to look cool on social media but honeslty, what would be your gut reaction?

 

[AJ84]

I'm not saying the OP did anything wrong by meeting other girls. They are not in a relationship and he doesn't owe her anything. But he is wondering why she has gone silent on him and it seems to be because of those snap chat pics so he's wondering what his next step should be.

Maybe she'll come around, maybe she won't but he seems to be able to meet other girls anyway so not the end of the world if he never hears from her again.