Is it even worth to date these days?

[user252009]

With the world currently still not being well, and in addition this situation in eastern Europe right now, I feel like the world's pretty ****ty. Personally, I'm in quite a good spot professionally with a new job and my side career taking off as well. Just the personal things aren't too great. I'm out of shape currently (too exhausted from work), and have gone on two first dates recently. One (HB9) said that she had fun and we'll talk, but when I texted her and asked her out again she ghosted me, and the second one (HB5/6) was cool but I'm not that attracted to her and even with this one I was initiating the conversations. Should I just put dating on the side for now, wait til I settle into the new job more, then start working out again regularly and then see how I feel about things?

Has anyone else been in this mood lately?

 

[Toddz]

Yeah the first thing you should do is get back in shape by getting in the gym.

Working out raises your testosterone and endorphin levels, which in turn will make you look better and feel better.

Put dating on the back burner for now, and after a month or 2 in the gym get back out there in the dating scene.

Good Luck.

 

[user252009]

Yeah the first thing you should do is get back in shape by getting in the gym.

Working out raises your testosterone and endorphin levels, which in turn will make you look better and feel better.

Put dating on the back burner for now, and after a month or 2 in the gym get back out there in the dating scene.

Good Luck.

Yeah, hopefully the work gets easier now and I have leftover energy to do it

 

[EyeBRollin]

Out of shape and had a date with an HB9? The lie detector determined this was a lie.

 

[Striker_93]

Out of shape and had a date with an HB9? The lie detector determined this was a lie.

Lol, yeah because it's completely impossible to date a hot girl when your out of shape.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Lol, yeah because it's completely impossible to date a hot girl when your out of shape.

I speak in probabilities not possibilities. It is more likely that the broad is a 6-7 than a 9. I say this to point out that most people way overrate themselves.

 

[darksprezzatura]

it's completely possible to be with a hottie even when out of shape.

I've dated multiple women at the same time when I used to be morbidly obese.

As you get fit, your options improve, just like any other form of self improvement.

Nothing is be all end all.

 

[SW15]

With the world currently still not being well, and in addition this situation in eastern Europe right now, I feel like the world's pretty ****ty.

Should I just put dating on the side for now, wait til I settle into the new job more, then start working out again regularly and then see how I feel about things?

Has anyone else been in this mood lately?

Your feelings are not unusual for this era.

You are going to feel horny, regardless of how the stock market is doing, pandemic case counts, or Eastern European military conflicts.

You probably need to prioritize your health and fitness, then focus more on dating.

 

[MatureDJ]

With the world currently still not being well, and in addition this situation in eastern Europe right now, I feel like the world's pretty ****ty. Personally, I'm in quite a good spot professionally with a new job and my side career taking off as well. Just the personal things aren't too great.

So are you saying that you want to CareerCopeMax? Because men throughout history have been conditioned to have to spin either ProviderGame or WarriorGame to get poontang, you are following your instinct, even if you don't consciously realize it. (I recently posted a topic about men spinning WarriorGame in Ukraine.)

 

[MatureDJ]

Out of shape and had a date with an HB9? The lie detector determined this was a lie.

Maybe he EscortMaxxed.

 

[MatureDJ]

With the world currently still not being well, and in addition this situation in eastern Europe right now, I feel like the world's pretty ****ty. Personally, I'm in quite a good spot professionally with a new job and my side career taking off as well. Just the personal things aren't too great. I'm out of shape currently (too exhausted from work), and have gone on two first dates recently. One (HB9) said that she had fun and we'll talk, but when I texted her and asked her out again she ghosted me, and the second one (HB5/6) was cool but I'm not that attracted to her and even with this one I was initiating the conversations. Should I just put dating on the side for now, wait til I settle into the new job more, then start working out again regularly and then see how I feel about things?

Has anyone else been in this mood lately?

I was first there before Putin had became President.

 

[MatureDJ]

You are going to feel horny, regardless of how the stock market is doing ...

I definitely feel hornier when my stock market investments are doing well, if only so that I can better afford to at least EscortMax.

 

[user252009]

I did have a date with an HB9..not a second one lol

I'm not obese, just a few extra pounds on me right now, so that's getting sorted out

 

[EyeBRollin]

I did have a date with an HB9..not a second one lol

I think this forum should require pictures for proclaimed HB8+.

Most Instagram “models” I see with 100,000+ followers are closer to HB7-8 than they are to HB9-10 and these broads are only fvcking with blue chip verified dudes.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

My plan was to wait to get on Tinder until I had a six-pack. I eventually got on it, even though I still had no six-pack. Best thing I ever did. So, I’d advise carpe diem! Do not put dating on hold. (I still don’t have a six-pack).

 

[Striker_93]

I speak in probabilities not possibilities. It is more likely that the broad is a 6-7 than a 9. I say this to point out that most people way overrate themselves.

My point was to say you don't have to be in shape to date a hot girl lol but I get what your saying.....

And I don't think anyone would confuse a 6 with a 9.

 

[user252009]

My plan was to wait to get on Tinder until I had a six-pack. I eventually got on it, even though I still had no six-pack. Best thing I ever did. So, I’d advise carpe diem! Do not put dating on hold. (I still don’t have a six-pack).

It was an incredible struggle with a very low calorie diet to get to mid-10 of body fat percentage a few years ago, and it went back up semi-fast, because it just wasn’t sustainable for me. I def have to work out more (I don’t really right now due to the new job stressing me out) but not sure I’d want to go to those extremes I had to back then.

 

[EyeBRollin]

My point was to say you don't have to be in shape to date a hot girl lol but I get what your saying.....

And I don't think anyone would confuse a 6 with a 9.

I get what you are saying, but it’s cap.

 

[Zimbabwe]

My plan was to wait to get on Tinder until I had a six-pack. I eventually got on it, even though I still had no six-pack. Best thing I ever did. So, I’d advise carpe diem! Do not put dating on hold. (I still don’t have a six-pack).

Tinder is terrible for dating, sure it's easy to get sex from Slvts with daddy issues but if you want a meaningful relationship there are better ways.

I bet you want the girls in your bedroom but not meeting your parents.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Tinder is terrible for dating, sure it's easy to get sex from Slvts with daddy issues but if you want a meaningful relationship there are better ways.

I bet you want the girls in your bedroom but not meeting your parents.

This was pre-pandemic and it was fine. I LTR’d 2 of them. I understand Tinder is crappy now.