"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is it even worth being alpha in the USA & (other wealthy, feminized countries)?

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I was viewing this video by former SoSuave frequent poster Rollo Tomassi, and it got me interested:


Rollo interviews this champion kickboxer and webcam pimp "Cobra" Tate, a very strong alpha male. He discusses how when in the UK, a gal called the police for him being abusive, and he got thrown in jail, etc. He makes a great point that the police that handled him had the attitude of "knock the alpha down" as a lot of those policemen were watching a webcam channel like what he runs, while he bangs the webcam models (as part of the investigation, they took all his computer stuff, so they saw what his business was, etc.) Of course, this meme can be broadened into the way that traditional conservative men hurl insults at him for having an alpha disposition with women instead of being a "dutiful" family man - and the way that the courts are merciless at hounding any man that has biologically fathered (unless it's a cuckold situation and the presumptive father is still presumed/deemed to be the responsible father) for child support. IOW, an alpha can't sire too many children because, if he's a regular Working Class Joe, he can't afford it!

While contemplating this, I thought back to the Nature videos of the alpha lion or walrus having to constantly fight off alpha-wannbes; now of course, animals are too stupid to contemplate, so they just go on instinct no matter how painful the scars of the fighting are - but as humans, we can contemplate. I even thought of the way that bad-boy Charlie Sheen - who obviously could have shown his face at any L.A. nightspot and picked up women to sex up - decided instead to simply pay high-priced escorts: "I pay them so they go home"; he was essentially saying that being the alpha was not worth the trouble, and so as a beat of means, he went the beta route just like any financially successful beta man would do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was viewing this video by former SoSuave frequent poster Rollo Tomassi, and it got me interested:


Rollo interviews this champion kickboxer and webcam pimp "Cobra" Tate, a very strong alpha male. He discusses how when in the UK, a gal called the police for him being abusive, and he got thrown in jail, etc. He makes a great point that the police that handled him had the attitude of "knock the alpha down" as a lot of those policemen were watching a webcam channel like what he runs, while he bangs the webcam models (as part of the investigation, they took all his computer stuff, so they saw what his business was, etc.) Of course, this meme can be broadened into the way that traditional conservative men hurl insults at him for having an alpha disposition with women instead of being a "dutiful" family man - and the way that the courts are merciless at hounding any man that has biologically fathered (unless it's a cuckold situation and the presumptive father is still presumed/deemed to be the responsible father) for child support. IOW, an alpha can't sire too many children because, if he's a regular Working Class Joe, he can't afford it!

While contemplating this, I thought back to the Nature videos of the alpha lion or walrus having to constantly fight off alpha-wannbes; now of course, animals are too stupid to contemplate, so they just go on instinct no matter how painful the scars of the fighting are - but as humans, we can contemplate. I even thought of the way that bad-boy Charlie Sheen - who obviously could have shown his face at any L.A. nightspot and picked up women to sex up - decided instead to simply pay high-priced escorts: "I pay them so they go home"; he was essentially saying that being the alpha was not worth the trouble, and so as a beat of means, he went the beta route just like any financially successful beta man would do.
The police "knocking the alpha down"?? Lol, yeah I'm quite sure if you are referring to a use of force scenario it was more about his Martial arts ability than anything else. The police aren't thinking "oh there's an alpha male, let's go get him!"
 

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The police "knocking the alpha down"?? Lol, yeah I'm quite sure if you are referring to a use of force scenario it was more about his Martial arts ability than anything else. The police aren't thinking "oh there's an alpha male, let's go get him!"
Society and the system will try to reduce him.
 

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Its not a matter of alpha or beta unlike many internet characters preech, its about a system where your freedom to be and behave is limited within your functionality to it in that moment.

During the cold war there was a need of strong men willing to engage a conflict thats why you had your actions movies and overall worshipping of certain types of men, right now the conflict moved in terms of social control so 30 yrs ago a guy training daily at the shooting range was a resource and welcomed, now its a guy who pose a threat to further social control and is shamed and called names.

You are allowed to be a man of action as long as your action benefit the system while you are hunted down or reduced when they dont.

If you are succesful but not fuctional to the system, the system will come back at you either with taxes or other attacks to get you back in line.

Ask yourself why dead beats on welfare are toleranted and helped while self sufficient groups of people living by themselves are targeted.
 

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Its not a matter of alpha or beta unlike many internet characters preech, its about a system where your freedom to be and behave is limited within your functionality to it in that moment.

During the cold war there was a need of strong men willing to engage a conflict thats why you had your actions movies and overall worshipping of certain types of men, right now the conflict moved in terms of social control so 30 yrs ago a guy training daily at the shooting range was a resource and welcomed, now its a guy who pose a threat to further social control and is shamed and called names.

You are allowed to be a man of action as long as your action benefit the system while you are hunted down or reduced when they dont.

If you are succesful but not fuctional to the system, the system will come back at you either with taxes or other attacks to get you back in line.

Ask yourself why dead beats on welfare are toleranted and helped while self sufficient groups of people living by themselves are targeted.
There's transferrance of wealth and power. Its being taken from who has it and given to others. Non working Thugs and deadbeats are utilized because their criminal mind is admired. Hes not at competition with her because she wants to take your job. Any form of empowerment is used, cheating, lieing, deception. The hardworking man is the one targeted. He will be cheated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There's transferrance of wealth and power. Its being taken from who has it and given to others. Non working Thugs and deadbeats are utilized because their criminal mind is admired. Hes not at competition with her because she wants to take your job. Any form of empowerment is used, cheating, lieing, deception. The hardworking man is the one targeted. He will be cheated.
If their plan is to reset society by inducing a collapse when tax payers and producers quit, everything is going according to the plan.

Seems like they enjoyed reading atlas shrugged.
 
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