Alright, well I'm trying to work on having more fun with approaching and not seeing it as work, but it seems almost impossible to do at the mall. Most of the time you're just walking around and when you do occassionally see a good looking girl, you seize up because you know she'll be able to detect you're not having fun and therefore will reject you. And yeah, overall the mall itself is just not fun and therefore it's hard to really be in a state of having fun when you're approaching a girl. Most of the time you're walking around looking for girls for hours, which is tiring. The only interesting thing that happened to me today, was I saw a few of my friends who graduated. They asked me if I saw any girls and I was like "Nah man, haven't seen anything I liked yet. I haven't seen any good looking chicks yet, zero." and they started joking about how I have high standards. I tell them I come here because there aren't any girls where I live and they laugh. I also saw this other friend of mine who graduated and told me he's working at Disney now. But approach wise, NOTHING, because I know the girl will reject me if she knows I'm not having fun. I try to tell myself the mall is fun, but that doesn't work either.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Is it even possible to have fun with the mall?
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