"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Prodigy746

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Man i can never approach girls that are this hot. You would think that girls like this would only want a good looking rich guy. At very least you have to be good looking in order to get one of these type of girls.


I am able to approach 5-7s w ease heck throw in 8s in there sometime but god damn when you dealing w 9s and 10s feels like too much work.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=FIfbghHdG1s
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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would you die if you did approach and they turned you down? would your very mortal life come to a sudden end if they turned you down? would the pain be utterly insufferable and everlasting if they turned you down? choose A or B...

A) B
B) NO

Do you ever get turned down by a 7? I bet you do, your still alive yeah? now suddenly this 10 turns you down....???? logically being turned down by the 7 should be worse? in theory, it should actually be easier to approach 10's than 7's.

the 10's criteria are probably way tougher than the 7's, do you think you need some special alchemy to approach a 10? you dont, they are the same, women, human, be normal and stop elevating them in your mind so much and leave your ego on the shelf
 

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actually 9s and 10s if you approach them in respectful way and in safe environment they are usually nice and even when they reject you they don't use *****y mood , usually they smile and say sorry I have a bf , so you really not feel bad
I dont approch women who are not beautiful or the ones that try to be beautiful by having some slim body (the later is worse ) because these women reject the man worse than beautiful women especially the fatties
unless you have a good game and she gave you IOI dont approach women under 7
 

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I think you should just talk, befriend a hb 9 -10 and when you realize their (just?) girl it all seems easy.
Oh and
I am able to approach 5-7s
Dont go too low in your game or dont game girls who dont really interest you,
except there's NO other choice because you are going to become a lot better by gaming hb 9's.

evan12 said:
sorry I have a bf
<--- haha this happens a lot to me sometimes even with the bf around ^^
 

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It's all relative. One guys 10 is another guys 5. Personally I think the whole rating system is nonsense. A binary system is more effective. 1(attractive) or 0(not attractive). But that is all beside the point. If you want women like in the video, then just go for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TonyBaloney

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I'm sorry but these girls are stupidly little *****es - they will waste away their fertile years playing guys, then settle for a rich but beta provider who they will most likely cheat on - i can see it a mile off....
 

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TonyBaloney said:
I'm sorry but these girls are stupidly little *****es - they will waste away their fertile years playing guys, then settle for a rich but beta provider who they will most likely cheat on - i can see it a mile off....

Not to mention that there was only one legit hot girl in that whole group! haha





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Guys who have to ask other guys for such advice are hopeless twits.
 

Prodigy746

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Pimp-sicle said:
Not to mention that there was only one legit hot girl in that whole group! haha





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Come on man all the white girls in that video are 9/10 atleast imo. I would love to see the girls you date if you thnk those girls are not hot. Now as far as the 2 black girls in the video ... they were average imo.


I am not saying i would be scared to start a convo w them and number close its just that i think these type of girls would be too much work. First chances of them being single are very very low. Second even if you do manage to get the number and somehow start dating em , keeping em would be too much pain due to their princess syndrom. These girls have been treated different for their looks throughout most of their life and more then likely it has gotten to their heads.
 

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Prodigy746 said:
Come on man all the white girls in that video are 9/10 atleast imo. I would love to see the girls you date if you thnk those girls are not hot. Now as far as the 2 black girls in the video ... they were average imo.


I am not saying i would be scared to start a convo w them and number close its just that i think these type of girls would be too much work. First chances of them being single are very very low. Second even if you do manage to get the number and somehow start dating em , keeping em would be too much pain due to their princess syndrom. These girls have been treated different for their looks throughout most of their life and more then likely it has gotten to their heads.
That's right. So hypothetically speaking, if you DID start dating them, then be sure to become the guy who doesn't treat them like a princess.

With girls like this, and girls in general, you gotta remind them every now and then that their sh!t stinks like anyone else's. They like it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Think about it...why exactly do they seem out of your league? Probably because they're well groomed and in great shape.

If you get in great shape, groom and dress well, you'll be in the same league.
 

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look on the bright side. even the NFL players who make millions and are built like a brick house can't even date them since they're cheerleaders.
 

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"Hey.. I just blew you... and this is crazy....but heres my number" LoL

In my view these girls are cute but not all that hot IMO, ive hooked up with hotter however it all comes down to their vibe and personality. Dont put too much into it man.... a 7 with top notch personality trumps a 10 with a "im perfect" attitude. Would i bang some of them.. Yes i would but i wouldnt try to make it into something more.
 

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You got to really stop putting these ladies on a pedestal, that is the reality. A lot of hot 9s are well made up 7s anyway.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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