is it easier to slay post university?

[BPH]

simple
I have my own place. I live in college town. and I go out to small college bars and work in restaurant with attractive servers/hosts while being the hottest guy there
https://realmademen.wordpress.com/2012/11/11/be-the-hottest-guy-there/

Just curious, whereabouts in the country?

 

[HaleyBaron]

I was a dork back then. I was astonished when my chad roommate brought girls back to the room and would **** different every weekend. Even had some of them talking to me. If I was on his level, I would have been slaying it. Looking back, there were girls naturally giving me cues, but I was so naive to not know them. College is prime hunting grounds for maximum slaying.

 

[BaronOfHair]

what changed? what steps did you take? how many slays have you had post uni?

-I lost everything, and had no choice but to go to work on myself


-I was fortunate enough to begin my journey a few years before social media became the juggernaut that it's been since we got deep into The 10s... Recently as the late 2000s-very early 10s, men still had to attend seminars and the like on subjects they were interested in(navigating relations with the fairer sex included), and our culture was one in which taking action was prioritized over simply theorizing about all this sh-t on YT

-In the neighborhood of 70 = My total number of slays... Most occurred post-uni

 

[HaleyBaron]

simple
I have my own place. I live in college town. and I go out to small college bars and work in restaurant with attractive servers/hosts while being the hottest guy there
https://realmademen.wordpress.com/2012/11/11/be-the-hottest-guy-there/

I'm thinking of moving to one of the two college towns near me simply for this. I work remote so I can move where ever I want. I'm pretty sure I would clean up college compared to in the past. Especially at the college bars there I use to go by.

 

[Velasco]

Just curious, whereabouts in the country?

NY

 

[revannt]

I was a dork back then. I was astonished when my chad roommate brought girls back to the room and would **** different every weekend. Even had some of them talking to me. If I was on his level, I would have been slaying it. Looking back, there were girls naturally giving me cues, but I was so naive to not know them. College is prime hunting grounds for maximum slaying.

so did you slay or no? and are you slaying now? im sort of confused on what u are trying to say

 

[BPH]

NY

Ahh, yeah, my brother's been going on a tear up there since he came single. Just the sheer density of the place...meets a ton of women off the dating apps without even going out.

 

[HaleyBaron]

so did you slay or no? and are you slaying now? im sort of confused on what u are trying to say

I got lays after college, but it wasn't because I was away from college. I became aware of the redpill, researched human psychology, learned female behavior, learned about my masculinity, and most of all, went to the gym. All these came together is what allowed me to slay p*ssy. Along with getting a good job and becoming independent.

What I'm saying is, despite this, college is still a prime place to slay p*ssy as long as you go to the right university. A big college is always the best with a football team idealogy. There's a bunch of girls who just finished puberty away from their parents. Best time for them to play around.

 

[revannt]

I got lays after college, but it wasn't because I was away from college. I became aware of the redpill, researched human psychology, learned female behavior, learned about my masculinity, and most of all, went to the gym. All these came together is what allowed me to slay p*ssy. Along with getting a good job and becoming independent.

What I'm saying is, despite this, college is still a prime place to slay p*ssy as long as you go to the right university. A big college is always the best with a football team idealogy. There's a bunch of girls who just finished puberty away from their parents. Best time for them to play around.

i mean were you maxxed out on all those things pre uni? ie. gymaxxed and stuff.

 

[HaleyBaron]

i mean were you maxxed out on all those things pre uni? ie. gymaxxed and stuff.

You never stop improving yourself. But post college, I still didn't get it yet. It took about four years after and a huge breakup to come to my senses. I was a virgin up until I was 30.

 

[revannt]

You never stop improving yourself. But post college, I still didn't get it yet. It took about four years after and a huge breakup to come to my senses. I was a virgin up until I was 30.

how many slays did you get post 30?

 

[Divorced w 3]

It’ll never be as easy as it was in college / university. Sorry.

 

[revannt]

It’ll never be as easy as it was in college / university. Sorry.

wow. thanks for letting me know. this isn't the most enticing info to hear.

 

[BadBoy89]

Yes it is.

A man's best years are probably 25-29. Don't believe all the crap where men say "once you get in your 30s in so much better." It's not. Even if the man is rich, and looks good, and dresses good, and works out good and everything, its not better.

When women get older, the romantic relationship is more than 100% transactional. It's almost like a hooker feel to it, and its terrible.

The whole fight, the whole argument, the whole war, is for a woman's YOUTH. That's the only thing a man wants from her. If a woman gives a man her YOUTH, he will fall in love with her. If she doesn't give him his YOUTH, he could care less about her, no matter what she does.

 

[Velasco]

"once you get in your 30s in so much better." It's not. Even if the man is rich, and looks good, and dresses good, and works out good and everything, its not better

absolute nonsense. at 34 i still don’t think ive reached my peak yet. and the results i get now are far better than anything i got in my 20s. let alone when i was still in university

 

[Velasco]

i’ll expand on this. as long as you maintain your looks. or have vastly improved them from your 20s. the advantages you have at 30 over 20 are numerous

from

- having your own place. compared to her peers who either still live at home/share a dorm with a couple guys at school.
- sex skills vastly improved from all the one night stands you had in your 20s and learnings you gained about positions. how to last longer and rhythmic expertise. that someone in their 20s will not have enough experience to be able to replicate.
- have seen every sh1t test in the book by your 30s. know how to respond/not to respond to things someone in their 20s will not be able to replicate.
- because you have been with so many girls. could read young 18 year olds girls like a children’s book. and explain to them things about themselves they would never be able to come to on their own. due to their lack of experience compared to yours.
- your fashion aesthetic and overall look is something a young kid at university will not be able to replicate. because you spent years fine tuning your look. where they haven’t had the time yet to reach that level yet.

there’s more if i spend more time thinking about it but you get the picture

 

[Prepostereax]

simple
I have my own place. I live in college town. and I go out to small college bars and work in restaurant with attractive servers/hosts while being the hottest guy there
https://realmademen.wordpress.com/2012/11/11/be-the-hottest-guy-there/

Neat solution.

Putting yourself in a situation where you get high exposure to students / post grads is a no-brainer.
ie
- live in a college town/suburb
- work & play in or near popular places there
- keep contact with people who are still involved with the uni crowd

{I did something like this post uni without realising wtf I was doing, even whilst being a dork with no game - it was fish in a barrel mode}

I attended more parties & events post uni, than during it

couldn't capitalise on the "uni lifestyle" during my study years, as I had a gf at the time, and almost zero disposable income

wasn't popular at all. quite literally was a jester and a loser lol i was probably like the top 3 lower of my class easily. hence the rason why im asking this post rn

having no luck in college could be a blessing in disguise - if you were as clueless as I was, you'd end up in a LTR with the first chick who opened her legs for you

how many slays did you get post 30?

Don't get excited about numbers

Comes a point where quality becomes the main factor