"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it easier to meet pretty girls in real life compared to Tinder?

Nikw

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I just downloaded the app and have been swiping left non-stop and all I see are 6s and below.
Ocassionally there's some 7s, and once in a while, there's an "8", only to find out from her other photos that she's a 6 (due to angles).

What's everyone's thoughts on this? Do you guys have more success in real life or online (tinder, okcupid etc.)?
I read about good things on Tinder but all I see are fuglies.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Magotrox

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The apps generally have low grade stuff, and, even when you find good stuff there, they generally desapear in short time. Law of the jungle, bro! But be pacient and you will find the gold you want.

True life is different, cos you have a better avaliation of the girl. But the values of people r always there. Play in both camps and be happy. Game on!!!
 

Dark Horse

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On Tinder, how succesful you are depends on your overall attractiveness and the quality of photos you take. The closer you are to the "ideal man" based on your society, the more succesful you will be. In most societies, that's tall good looking white guys who are the most succesful.

An average guy with average looks may match with anywhere from 1 in 30 to 1 in 50 girls assuming he swipes yes to everyone.
 
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