is it chicken to ask her friend for her number?

[Ultra Magnus]

I met this girl last night at dinner with a group of friends. She was really cool and I think we hit it off OK (she sat right across from me). So I never got a chance to talk to her one on one so it was really tough for me to ask for her info....

SO I want to ask her friend who brought her to dinner for the email address or phone so that I can get to know her better. Does this make me look like a chicken for not asking her directly for her info in front of 6 other friends? Does it make me look like I am not a confident person by asking her friend? I figure I have nothing to lose if I don't try right?

 

[Big-J]

Originally posted by Ultra Magnus
I met this girl last night at dinner with a group of friends. She was really cool and I think we hit it off OK (she sat right across from me). So I never got a chance to talk to her one on one so it was really tough for me to ask for her info....

SO I want to ask her friend who brought her to dinner for the email address or phone so that I can get to know her better. Does this make me look like a chicken for not asking her directly for her info in front of 6 other friends? Does it make me look like I am not a confident person by asking her friend? I figure I have nothing to lose if I don't try right?

You sissy , you should have went and got it yourself. Balls-out is the best way to go.

Oh, and now that you've got the number, you may as well try it... Unless your gonna use her friend to communicate between you two

 

[Walden]

Yes itis chicken. It also makes you look like a p***y in her eyes. Whereas if you had asked her in the most private moment you got (even if it was in front of people) you woulda looked confident.

But if it's the only chance you have , you might as well take it.

 

[Starman]

Yes it makes you look like a wuss..if anything try to get her to arrange another dinner so you could try again..otherwise ..if she was really into you..she would give her # to your friend for you to call her..

if you will never see her again..go ahead and try to get her # from her friend

 

[ryoshi]

Dude, I found that if you ask for her number as if it's expected of her, you'll likely get it.

The other night I meet these two chicks and at the end of the night I asked them both for their phone numbers right in front of each other and had one right her number on one arm and then the other on the other arm. I then asked for them to write their names on it as well so I would remember who was who. I was wondering who I should ask for the number based on repore but I figured I'd go for both instead and it worked.

Go for it at full speed homie.

 

[Ultra Magnus]

yeah, well the thing is that she was in town only for that night...she lives about 2 hours from where I live. So I know the next time she wants to come back is next month so I don't want to wait until then. You guys are right tho....should have been more ballsy.

 

[bman]

you dont ask girls for their #. you tell them to give you their #.

 

[squirrels]

Short answer...YES!!

Saw a guy do that once...it looked so pathetic all I could do was shake my head. This is AFTER he completely struck out with the girl, allowing her to c*ckbl*ck me from her friend...then he comes downstairs into the parking lot, where I'm STILL with her friend and asks her for her friend's number while I'm standing there with one hand rubbing her p*ssy through her panties. Some people just don't get it.

 

[die4me]

You never ask her friend for her number. You're just gonna look desperate and unconfident.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Don't forget it makes the guy seem kinda creepy and sneaky. Too many negatives add up too quickly that way.

It may be your only shot--a very low percentage shot. Take it if nothing else--but I wouldn't bother. I remember when I used to make few attempts and the attempts I did make were like these long-shot desperation plays. That's facing the wrong direction and wasting your effort. Instead, pick your options better, go for the higher percentage plays (girls you can meet more often, for example..)--don't go for these desperation plays.

That's kind of badly stated--but there's an idea in there. AFC's (to overuse the word) tend to make fewer moves and the ones they do make are poorly chosen and/or desperate long shots. It's a waste of effort and focus. Redirect it towards more and better approaches.

And this girl is a case in point: she's 2 hours away, you won't get anything really started with her anyway. It's long distance at that point. Established couples have a tough time with it, you two are barely acquaintances.

 

[Tantric]

Okay...yes i would say it is a bit of a loser thing to do...

BUT, keep in mind this...she lives 2 hours away from you! Even if you did get her number/email, she is probably getting macked by guys in her own city. Long-distance relationships are bad enough, but trying to start one (even if youj ust want to get to know her better) long distance is a waste o' time. I understand you like her, but even if she did like you, going 2 hrs. out of your way ain't worth it.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

Follow these guys advice.

Ask her friend if theres no other way of getting her number.

But then ask yourself if shes worth all the trouble

 

[Player_Supreme]

is it chicken to ask her friend for her number?

Uhhh yeah! Grow some nuts and go ask her. If this is how your going to start with her...it will be how you finish also...no nuts.

don't be skerrd...step up and get those digits bruh.

 

[DankNuggs]

Ha, one of those threads you don't need to read to comment on...ULTRA MANGNUS needs to grow a pair, you should give her a call

luck favors the bold

 

[Bonhomme]

Yes

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