IS it cheating?

[DJSask]

Question...

So your dating a girl, its recently reached exclusive status... and she says

"I have this Girlfriend, with whom i've had sexual relations with in the past... we have a spirtual type relationship and helped each other through a lot of stuff... but we've both met Guys that we want to share our lives with.... but she is coming down to see me, and it will be our last time together.... i need to have that time with her for closure.... how do you feel"

 

[Julian]

"Let me join in"

 

[DankNuggs]

She is obviously getting horny thinking of diving into that muff....If she's having a serious relationship with you, and having these feelings she wants to act on, i'd say its a huge red flag...I'd take your relationship off the burner now, and explain to her that she needs to figure herself out, and for her to give you a call if she does....

Then wait.....

Then when she calls you back, i'd be very skeptical....she sounds like nothing but a headcase rollercoaster ride....


p.s. Cheating or not, you have to determine whether she is capable of having a relationship with you than would allow a potential to cheat...doesn't sound like it....if you think she could, then she's just cheating....

 

[DJSask]

Uh ya i'm probably one of the few guys who isn't into that type of thing...

I believe sex should between two people who care about each other.... not I'm not wuss... I just like intimacy...

 

[DJSask]

I told her

" If you have what you need in this relationship, there should be no reason for you to need to have a one last time for closure"

She told me, if it would hurt me she wouldn't be intimate with her... I said

"its not about what i want... I don't want you to make decision based on guilt, but rather based on what you want"

"I want to be with you, and therefore I won't do anything with her intimately"


Thats where it stands... kinda of werid though

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Closure... bah...

 

[NewMan]

What the f?

Here's your reply...

-" I know what you mean about needing closure. There's this girl I had a relationship with a couple months back, and I never really ended it with her properly - you know? Whilst your friend is in town, I think I'm going to take the opportunity and get some closure of my own.... I never did tell her she gave the best BJ's I've ever had"

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

LOL.

Oh yeah ... BJ closure ... beautiful

 

[Player_Supreme]

"How do I feel? Bytch why didn't you tell me you were a faggot. Hell yeah your cheating. How would you like it if I did the same thing with an old girlfriend whom helped me through some **** and is coming down to see me one more time"

Any questions. Cheating is cheating either with same or opposite sex!!

I guess she doesn't really love you all that much after all playboy!

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Originally posted by DJSask
Uh ya i'm probably one of the few guys who isn't into that type of thing...

I believe sex should between two people who care about each other.... not I'm not wuss... I just like intimacy...

Well then, it's cheating, isn't it? So much for common sense.

Bro, I understand the whole 'people who care about each other' thingy but.... New Years is around the corner, and she's got a bi friend coming to visit, and she all but says 'Lets all get together and f*ck!' ....and you aren't all over that?


I would make it my personal duty, to please those booties.

 

[Longview]

of course its cheating!!

They are being emotionally involved with someone else.

just because she asked doesnt mean it wont effect your relationship!

 

[joey37]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
"How do I feel? Bytch why didn't you tell me you were a faggot. Hell yeah your cheating. How would you like it if I did the same thing with an old girlfriend whom helped me through some **** and is coming down to see me one more time"

Any questions. Cheating is cheating either with same or opposite sex!!

I guess she doesn't really love you all that much after all playboy!

I don't always agree with player, but he's right here. Tell the dyke to get lost for even considering that bullshlt.

 

[Big Pappy]

I think you handled it well. However, if she wants some booty, she'll get some and there's not a whole lot you can do about it.


Just be sure to tell her that you don't care how good her friend is in bed. You KNOW that you are a better p*ssy licker than any of her girlfriends. And, you tell her if she has a friend that thinks she's better at it than you are, you want to see it, because it's just impossible!