"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is it Biology, Evolution, Science, that we guys always have to do the approaching?

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Ihateinitiatingalot7 said:
Why is knowing what you want and going after it a Masculine, Manly thing? does it say in the Bible or what? did God say so? To be honest, I sometimes feel like instigating violence instead of being assertive, approaching women, talking to them, initiating things with them, etc. As in, I would like to beat up a girl's boyfriend out of anger and jealousy, show the girl I have the Balls to endure some hits to my body.
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If you want to trust the judgement of a woman for the course of a relationship (and that is what you are doing by letting her pick you) more power to you. Sure the first few women you decide to go after may be nuts, but at least you will learn to know what you don't want after the experience is over. In time your decision making skills will improve to the point where you can spot a loser a mile away.
As far as God and the Bible they don't factor in any way, shape or form in my decision making. If these institutions do factor in your decisions you have additional obstacles to overcome.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do men have to have confidence but women don't have to? why do men have to be comfortable and content, secure with themselves but women don't have to?
 
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You are whining. The sexes are not equal and do not play the same game. Accept the world is unfair and play the hand you are dealt to the best of your ability. That is all any of us can ever do.
 
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wait_out said:
You are whining. The sexes are not equal and do not play the same game. Accept the world is unfair and play the hand you are dealt to the best of your ability. That is all any of us can ever do.
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yeah, i do it because i have to, not because i want to
 
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