"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is it better to wear contacts or glasses?

Is it better to wear contacts or glasses?

  • Contacts

    Votes: 19 67.9%
  • Glasses

    Votes: 9 32.1%

  • Total voters
    28

blackbirdbeatle

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Contacts are hard on your eyes. Doesn't matter what kind, even the gentle ones put unnecessary stress on your eyes and prevent them from getting enough oxygen. Add on staring at a computer for a good part of the day, reading, etc... it all adds to poor eyesight. Glasses are great because you can take them off fast and easy when you don't really need them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by blackbirdbeatle
when you don't really need them.
That is to say you're one of the fortunate few who can live for 2 minutes without there glasses on. If I'm not wearing contacts and glasses I can't make out anything a foot in front of me.
 

Abbott

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Originally posted by Vincent
That is to say you're one of the fortunate few who can live for 2 minutes without there glasses on. If I'm not wearing contacts and glasses I can't make out anything a foot in front of me.
If you think that's bad, I can't see anything clearly that's farther than six inches away, if I don't wear my glasses. I'm afraid of bumping into things like an idiot if I don't have my glasses, or going into the women's restroom by mistake (since I wouldn't be able to read the sign). I didn't even attempt the vision test for my driver's license without my glasses, as I already knew that I would fail that way. And to think my vision was probably better then.


Ben
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by Abbott
If you think that's bad, I can't see anything clearly that's farther than six inches away, if I don't wear my glasses.
I think this thread needs to turn into, "Lets see who's contact size-penis is bigger"

Mines -5.25 in the right and -5.75 in the left.
 
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