"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is it better to just hook up or a genuine relationship???

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hell695

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depends on the women if shes hot she'll probably try ***** power in a relationship but there hot so they make good one nighters
 

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Relationshps shouldn't be forced. Basically who would want a relationship with someone who has one foot in and one foot out. So many guys try this and I doubt it results in lasting happiness for them.

I only have relationships with women who pursue me. If they aren't willing to pursue me, then I just have a physical relationship with them. I never even mention relationshp terms at all. I just keep seeing other people and I never bring it up at all unless they ask.

IME a lot of women make great sex partners as long as they have their own place, but very few make great live-in girlfriends/wives. Their are some great ones to be found out there, I just think most people are too quick to settle for qualities they can't end up living with.
 

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What you are asking is an individual answer so I'll simply say that which is better is whatever you are looking for at the time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well lets see:

Relationship = sex whenever you want (at least at first)
Single = sex less often but more variety

Relationship = ups and downs and a constant learning experience
Single = A passionate night

Relationship = love
Single = lust

Relationship = money
Single = sex

Relationship = stability (at least at first)
Single = unpredictability and freedom

Relationship = Learning to love others weaknesses
Single = discovering eachothers strengths

Relationship = ownership
Single = freedom

Relationship = Finding someone right for you
Single = Advertising at all costs

This is a really weird question man. I mean the differences should be obvious right?
 

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Playboy said:
Well lets see:

Relationship = sex whenever you want (at least at first)
Single = sex less often but more variety

Relationship = ups and downs and a constant learning experience
Single = A passionate night

Relationship = love
Single = lust

Relationship = money
Single = sex

Relationship = stability (at least at first)
Single = unpredictability and freedom

Relationship = Learning to love others weaknesses
Single = discovering eachothers strengths

Relationship = ownership
Single = freedom

Relationship = Finding someone right for you
Single = Advertising at all costs

This is a really weird question man. I mean the differences should be obvious right?
Agreed either way their both positive learning expiriences
 
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