Is it better to give your number, than to ask for hers?

[sharpshooter]

I've gone through a lot of articles here where it simply states GET HER NUMBER!. Wouldn't it be a lot easier if after a conversation you just hand her your number? I don't know, it seems to make more sense and it seems to be a lot more easier. Someone go in depth on the entire number exchanging thing (or post an article link)

 

[sharpshooter]

bump

 

[Mercenary]

There is a link to the DJ Bible in the top right hand corner of your screen...

Giving her your number is lazy and AFC.
Women aren't going to take the time to call you unless you are Tom Cruise. Not asking for her number tells her you have little cojones. Women don't date men with little cojones.

 

[JJMcLure]

No. She won't call.

Clear enough?

You can exchange numbers or get hers. You need to have the guts to ask for it. She will know why you want it and respect your confidence.

You do not just give her yours - that will just set you up for a tense time "waiting" for a call anyway, that never comes. Some chicks don't even return your calls early on, let alone initiate one!

It's the man's job to initiate - from approach, through close, phone call, date suggestion, first kiss, and beyond.