Ok I'm in college and was just wondering what's better to do when going out? Sometimes when I go out all of the girls are taken by other guys so I was wondering if it would be better to bring a girl with me to parties so I can have someone to dance with and not have to constantly search. Do you think that's a good idea or is meeting girls at the party better?
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
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Is it better to bring a girl with you to a party or to meet random girls there?
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Both, depending on the situations.
Haven't you heard the phrase "my b!tch so bad , she be bagging b!tches for me"
lol , sometimes it's good to have a wing girl, believe it or not, women are good at picking up subtle signals which we miss out at times, so having her on the side as a wing girl could do wonders i.e if the right ch!ck is with you.
Haven't you heard the phrase "my b!tch so bad , she be bagging b!tches for me"
lol , sometimes it's good to have a wing girl, believe it or not, women are good at picking up subtle signals which we miss out at times, so having her on the side as a wing girl could do wonders i.e if the right ch!ck is with you.
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never take a girl to a party. I made that mistake once. What happens is you just get to watch her flirt with all the other guys all night, as they all relentlessly hit on her and try to make you look bad. If you have a girl keep her away from other guys as much as possible.
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i once brought a few grains of sand to the beach.
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glad i did cos it turned out to be a pebble beach...
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It depends on how many people you already know are going to be there.
If you know a lot of the people going then it isn't necessary and you can focus on meeting girls there through the others, the people you already know will also act as your social proof and will probably know other girls that they can then introduce to you.
If you don't really know that many people, then bring a friend. It fulfils two purposes, one is that you actually have somebody there you know haha, the other is that it will provide you with social proof, especially if she is hot. Girls, especially college aged girls, have this tendency to wonder why a guy is talking to and hanging around with a hot girl. If you're standing around chilling with a good looking girl, the others will notice, and think there must be something about you, why else would you be talking to this girl.
Just an idea
Gunner
If you know a lot of the people going then it isn't necessary and you can focus on meeting girls there through the others, the people you already know will also act as your social proof and will probably know other girls that they can then introduce to you.
If you don't really know that many people, then bring a friend. It fulfils two purposes, one is that you actually have somebody there you know haha, the other is that it will provide you with social proof, especially if she is hot. Girls, especially college aged girls, have this tendency to wonder why a guy is talking to and hanging around with a hot girl. If you're standing around chilling with a good looking girl, the others will notice, and think there must be something about you, why else would you be talking to this girl.
Just an idea
Gunner