Is it better to be the one to break up the LTR or be the one who gets dumped?

[jophil28]

If you break it up - its possible to have separated prematurely when things could have been resolved and she might still have interest.

No worries there - If you bail before that ship has sailed she will pursue you and hound you day and night. You will have plenty of opportunities to "take her back" BUT be prepared for her later to make you pay, or even dump you out of sheer vindictiveness.

 

[johnca2010]

Best way is to go along with the breakup, if she is the one initiating it, and basically turn it into a mutual decision. Talk it over and agree with whatever B.S. she comes up with, throw in a bit of your own and then leave it mutual.

After it's done, walk away and don't look back.... no matter how much it hurts or eats at you.

If you want to do the breaking up, then just do it.

In both scenarios, you walk away with your pride intact.

Very true. There's a point when a woman's IL--no matter how much she once liked you--has diminished to the point of no return. Trying to win back this IL is futile.

 

[Slaanesh]

If a woman denies you the pvssy 2 times in a row it's time to hit the 'Eject'-Button. She's virtually begging you to end it by then.
No need to go down with the ship.

I'd always opt for being the one who does the dumping. Of course this requires having some balls.

 

[Rubirosa]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=179068
any questions ?

 

[johnca2010]

Also for all the guys here, don't buy any of the crap from women when they say things like "you don't deserve this," "isn't fair," etc..

It's complete bullsh*t. If a girl wants to be with you, believe me she'll be with you. The girl I was dated acted like a complete wh(ore for me when she worshipped the ground I walked on and then turned into a cold, deceitful b*tch when she met some other guy she wanted to date. And guess what: this change can literally happen AT ANY TIME. This b*tch lied through her teeth to me several days before. I always thought she was a "trustworthy" girl. Bullsh*t. Trust people by the actions, period, and never let anyone tell you otherwise. I bought into that sh*t, began not looking closely at her actions, and that's what happens. Don't be an idiot. Move the f*ck on and patiently work towards getting a hotter, better looking broad who f*cks you better anyway. Don't settle.

Like the previous guy said, don't go down with the ship, like I basically did. You waste your valuable time, it drains your energy and emotions, and ultimately you end up getting f*cked by her anyway. Drop her like a bad habit and move the f*ck on. You're going to be tempted to contact her (at least I am) but don't press the rewind button.