MrConfidence
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There you go with those assumptions again.oakraiderz2 said:Haha...ok...youre right im wrong. Youre too stubborn. Have a nice life.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
There you go with those assumptions again.oakraiderz2 said:Haha...ok...youre right im wrong. Youre too stubborn. Have a nice life.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You behave a particular way on this website. I havent made an assumption, ive made my opinon about you based off of how you behave. Im not assuming youre stubborn. Im not even gonna get in to this. Youre always right, all hail viper.MrConfidence said:There you go with those assumptions again.
I'm not always right, I'm simply saying that most of your assumptions are not right. Look at it this way, I know who I am, but being a person on the internet who's never talked to me personally before, you don't, and therefore, must rely on what I have told you in my posts, or make assumptions.oakraiderz said:You behave a particular way on this website. I havent made an assumption, ive made my opinon about you based off of how you behave. Im not assuming youre stubborn. Im not even gonna get in to this. Youre always right, all hail viper.
Eh, that's true to a point, but I wouldn't call myself a dillusionist. All I know is I'm that kind of guy who tries to improve his attitude, but in the end, is still ****y, and depressed. But yes, that doesn't mean I'm not multi-talented. And remind me again what this has to do with the topic? The answer is absolutely nothing.Vincent said:Viper, whether or not you're willing to accept it, everything that oakraiderz has said about you is true in one shape or another.
You can't change because you don't know who you are. You dissillusion yourself into believing one reality and refuse to take down your shields and masks to realize how fragile and human you really are.
You're so close to the edge and I hope you're willing to dive in just like we have and admit to ourselves how little we truly know about who we are. Take the time to look at youself from another persons perspective. Once you can see this, you will be able to change in ways you didn't think possible.
A great man once said "The more I know, the more I realize I don't know", and I don't think you've come to this understanding yet. I know I was once in your shoes. Thinking I knew everything and the world was just black and white. Then this all came crashing down and I forced myself to examine who I was, and what I was trying to accomplish. I also spent a great deal of time studying people's interactions. I learned a lot about myself and allowed myself to continue to grow because I admitted that there was always something I could be doing to improve myself. In every aspect of my life.
I have a strong feeling that you will resent this post, because that's what you seem to do when someone asks you to look at who you are as opposed to what you are doing. But eventually you will learn.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
But man... you are a dillusionist. You constantly say that you're a cool guy and stuff, yet no girls really know you/talk to you, so how can you say that you're cool? You say you're multi-talented. Okay, well, you can play music, you can program, and you're on the wrestling/track and field teams. That isn't being multi-talented. There are a lot of people with more than one interest (something tells me that you're a bit confused between interests and talents), and you're one of those people, which is a good thing. The thing is though, you come across as very ****y and superior, when really you don't have a whole lot to back it up. Sure, you can do the things I mentioned above, but in the big scheme of things, none of it is really all that impressive.MrConfidence said:I'm not always right, I'm simply saying that most of your assumptions are not right. Look at it this way, I know who I am, but being a person on the internet who's never talked to me personally before, you don't, and therefore, must rely on what I have told you in my posts, or make assumptions.
Eh, that's true to a point, but I wouldn't call myself a dillusionist. All I know is I'm that kind of guy who tries to improve his attitude, but in the end, is still ****y, and depressed. But yes, that doesn't mean I'm not multi-talented. And remind me again what this has to do with the topic? The answer is absolutely nothing.
I really don't care what girls think, I think I'm cool. Why do no girls know me? No girls talk to me. Why do no girls talk to me? The hell should I know? Oh well, it's their loss anyway. And it's actually not true that no girls talk to me, because there have been a few times in the past, where girls have randomly approached me. Hell, their use to be this group of girls who I use to sit with at lunch, but sh*t happened, and we don't talk to eachother anymore(Let's just say, those chicks, while hot, kind of bored me. They were way too f*cking nice.). But I think the real reason that few girls talk to me, is because few girls know me.Mr_rogers said:But man... you are a dillusionist. You constantly say that you're a cool guy and stuff, yet no girls really know you/talk to you, so how can you say that you're cool? You say you're multi-talented. Okay, well, you can play music, you can program, and you're on the wrestling/track and field teams. That isn't being multi-talented. There are a lot of people with more than one interest (something tells me that you're a bit confused between interests and talents), and you're one of those people, which is a good thing. The thing is though, you come across as very ****y and superior, when really you don't have a whole lot to back it up. Sure, you can do the things I mentioned above, but in the big scheme of things, none of it is really all that impressive.
MrConfidence said:I'm not always right, I'm simply saying that most of your assumptions are not right. Look at it this way, I know who I am, but being a person on the internet who's never talked to me personally before, you don't, and therefore, must rely on what I have told you in my posts, or make assumptions.
Eh, that's true to a point, but I wouldn't call myself a dillusionist. All I know is I'm that kind of guy who tries to improve his attitude, but in the end, is still ****y, and depressed. But yes, that doesn't mean I'm not multi-talented. And remind me again what this has to do with the topic? The answer is absolutely nothing.
Believe what you want man, I know I've got no reason to brag. It still happened, whether or not you want to believe it. And since when does HOT=INTERESTING, cause that's apparently what you think. I'm not saying hot chicks can't be interesting, but you're acting like if a chick is hot, she's automatically interesting. Say I'm dillusional, the heck do I care, I was there when it happened, I know I'm not dillusional, and I have nothing to prove to you.oakraiderz2 said:Its funny how my assumptions are wrong according to you. But when vincent agrees with me hes right to some extent? How is that? The words ****y and depressed dont belong in the same sentence. Good luck in life dude. Hot girls bored you...right.![]()
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Don't mean to be rude, but have you read any of my posts? I already have several hobbies, and I already do various sports. Other than that, good advice.BobFuest said:So this is what its like in High school. wow, glad I am old.
Look poster, giving up is bad. Spending on other things is good. Take care of your sh-it man. Dont you have any hobbies or anything? do that instead. Dont come here asking for advice like u did cause your never going to get a good answer. you already know your not going to give up on girls so why ask? that other guy was right, your trying to give up on trying. GET OFF YOUR AS$ and do something besides posting here and thinking about girls. Become an athlete, join a rawk band, become a writer, anything but sitting on your PC being a loser. the reason your not getting any girls is because of being out there improving yourself your here *****in about nobody likes you. I dont mean this in a jerk way; its a motivational speech. Girls like guys who dont talk, they DO. You dont ask, "can i slap your butt" you just do it. Of course be careful not to get arrested at the same time but you get me.
As a side note, most everyone who has posted here in this message is immature and a loser too. Your advice all centers around yourselves. Fighting and trying to prove "whos more man" on a message board = LOSER. The one who doesnt care is the one out sleeping with your girlfriends. Cause he is out there doing something while you hold your d1ck in your hand and claim your the man.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Michele said:I'm sure I'm still blocked... but...
No, it's not okay you flaming faggot.
Quit asking for help.
Everytime you do you accuse people of:
1) making assumptions
2) calling you a troll
3) being a troll
4) being a bad moderator and that you'll leave and never come back as if we cared because we don't and we all actually hope you leave for real this time because you're a faggot and you need to die and if i were a moderator i'd ban you the first sign of gay posts because they're obviously gay because you're a gay retard and you are giving up on girls and think youre going to get girls that way because youre a retard so please leave this site you stupid dumbass.
5)making assumptions
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dittoNighthawk said:Shut up Butters.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.