Is it all about value or does compatibility matter too?

[DiegoSantori]

Let's say, you're going on a date with a pretty lady and she realizes pretty soon that you both have different personalities, different interests, a different approach to life and different plans for the future.

And let's say, you are good-looking/popular/earn good money/etc., i.e. you are offering something perceived as high value. Would she ignore the missing compatibility and focus on your high value?

 

[piranha45]

Compatibility is primarily useful for LTRs. Value is useful for short-term stuff.

So it really depends on what you're looking for...

 

[Peña]

If she wants to take your money she will.

 

[Who Dares Win]

It takes value to get her or even being considered worth of something, especially recently, the compatibility keeps the relationship.

Imagine you have to stick a piece of paper in the wall, the value is the strenght and time you push the paper, the compatibility is the quality of the glue.

You can have the best glue ever but if you throw the paper instead of pushing if for few secons, it wont hold.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

'Women marry because of many reasons,love is just one of them'

Memorize this quote,it may save your azz.

 

[Mike32ct]

Value gets a higher priority. I know plenty of couples where the woman has little or nothing in common with the man, but chose him mostly because of looks and/or money.

I'm not saying compatibility doesn't matter. It's just a smaller slice of the pie.
If you are in her social circle, you are "compatible" lol. The rest is all about value (from her perspective).

(I'll use the older term AFC instead of beta. I hate the alpha vs beta thing.) A common type of AFC game is the "compatibility game." The guy constantly tries to fish for common interests with a woman he met. He may even find some shared interests for real. But he still ends up in friendzone while she dates someone with less "in common" because she's more attracted to the other guy.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Compatibility matters too fam. You get a high value chick who can cook and clean and has family skills. But she's boring as fūck and has no personality, you'll see how long you'll want to stick around.

 

[Mike32ct]

Compatibility matters too fam. You get a high value chick who can cook and clean and has family skills. But she's boring as fūck and has no personality, you'll see how long you'll want to stick around.

Absolutely true. As men, we SHOULD care about compatibility. It's common sense, really. But I think the purpose of thread is to look at how much (or little) importance WOMEN put on compatibility.