Is it a turnoff for women if a man isn't popular or have a lot of friends?

[nismo-4]

i don't get why people think being a loner is a bad thing.

loners have better independence. they can entertain themselves when they're bored.

sure, some may have problems with communication... but that's not even a problem. you overcome that... when you learn things from this site.

i'll always be a loner... it's just more fun than pretending to care about what other people are doing for fun.

Loners don't have to spend money on girls and can spend more time making more money!

I guess since I'm in the music biz a lot, I have no time for girls and I only seem to attract fat girls, ugly girls, or if I do attract a dime piece, she's a hooker or golddigger stripper!

I just about heard all the insults and snaps when people ask me if I have a girlfriend and I say no.

BTW, don't trust internet dating.

 

[theunflushables]

No way, chicks love the loner bad boy persona. Watch this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKLizztikRk

And she was all over him.

 

[chinwaggler]

Would you be turned off if you were seeing a girl with no friends?

 

[Warrior74]

Would you be turned off if you were seeing a girl with no friends?

No. Not as long as she had interests besides sticking up under me 247. That's just less females in her ear messing with our relationship.


I know a lot of people and am well recieved where ever I go. People like me. But I don't have a lot of friends I hang out with all the time. In fact I enjoy being by myself at home mostly these days. I like the peace and quiet. I'm busy with my life these days as a full grown adult, so I really don't have time for a bunch of friends and hanging out. I'm busy working on my career and my business. And a lot of women like that.

 

[bukowski_merit]

Would you be turned off if you were seeing a girl with no friends?

i defintely would not care! would be find with that. females friends cause way more problems than they help.

 

[chinwaggler]

I'm not saying girly girl friends.. just someone that ate alone, didn't go out, see friends, have hobbies etc. Because if you do any of those, you have friends.

 

[bukowski_merit]

Think about it: If you met the best girl in the world, funny, pretty, sexy, and wild in bed, but she had no friends and you never met anyone she knew, she just wanted to stay in every Friday, Saturday, and Sunday night and watch tv or play X-box, you would get rid of her pretty fast and move on.

i wouldn't get rid of a girl like that pretty fast. especially if they meant my criteria for physical and emotional attractiveness (which they would have to or i wouldn't be talking to them in the first place).

and there seems to be some idea that if you're just sitting around in the house that you're going to be doing boring stuff... i don't own a video game system or watch much tv (except mma (which i dvr) and football)... when i have a girl over - we drink, share stories, build chemsitry, and have a lot of sex. and i can say it's far easier if she's already at your house to get her to open up than it is if you're out at a club/bar.... being a loner does not equal being a boring person... and if you can make a girl have fun when it's just you two sitting on a bed talking - you're bound to hear, "i can't believe we're having this much fun and we're just sitting around your house talking". i've heard that many many times...

 

[Pakwah]

Some girls like the excitement of doing things with you, or your friends, the more friends you have the better you will have plans friday night or the less of the chance your sitting around the house going - well what do you want to do - i dunno, what do you want to do.
if u dont have a close knit of friends, then take up hobbies and do something that shows you have interests, that you are not boring, that your not a geek freek stuck in front of the tv or keyboard everynight.
all in all, even if you are a loner, at least look like u have a life

 

[DonJuan11]

being a loner does not equal being a boring person... and if you can make a girl have fun when it's just you two sitting on a bed talking - you're bound to hear, "i can't believe we're having this much fun and we're just sitting around your house talking". i've heard that many many times...

That may be exciting for the first four weeks, but it gets old fairly quickly.

 

[bukowski_merit]

That may be exciting for the first four weeks, but it gets old fairly quickly.

this is true to an extent...

first, it depends on the girls age... i'm 27.... i normally date 21-22 year olds... and that does tend to happen... but normally at the 2 month mark (if you hang out a lot during the week. however, it can go 6 months if you just hang out on the weekends)... and there is plenty of stuff you can do to make it seem new (get a new girl in your life, let it be known to the old girl, then come back to the old girl)... but alas - that stuff runs out too... but at that point - i'm normally tired of the girl anyway...

and second, if i date a girl closer to my age, 25-30 range - this tends to not even be a problem. they've experienced the life that the younger girls want so much...

 

[slaog]

I'm sure there are DJ's who like to hang out with lots of friends and DJ'd who prefer to spend more time on their own. They're still DJ's and women love being around them so it doesn't really matter about the number of friends etc.


I see alot of people labelling themselves as loners because they havn't many friends. Don't label yourself as a loner. As you think you shall become.

 

[PhantomNYC]

i say yes it is, and its a turn off for them if your not the same (this mostly applies to the really hot girls who are ALWAYS surrounded with people)

 

[Bud_Fox]

Was Rocky a loner?

Would anyone here consider "Rocky Balboa" a loner? At the beginning of "Rocky I" he lived alone and didn't have many friends (except for Paulie).

 

[FairShake]

Would anyone here consider "Rocky Balboa" a loner? At the beginning of "Rocky I" he lived alone and didn't have many friends (except for Paulie).

Yes. But he took retards to the zoo. I heard retards like the zoo.