Is it a "test" when she asks about your "gf"?

[~attrACTION~]

Okay, I figured I'd make a separate thread to ask this question.

So there's this girl where I work and according to what this site teaches, she's treated me as her "emotional tampon."

That's cool because I have no choice at work anyway.

She's flirted with me too and on one occasion told me I was "fairly good looking." I guess some girls think that because they have a boyfriend it's okay to call other guys attractive..?

For the most part I assumed she likes me because of the way she'd just talk to me nonstop and strut her self to me every now and then.

I don't find her attractive though, at all, so I just brush it off and try to ignore her. And she has a boyfriend, which is no-no territory for me...I don't do that sort of thing.

I was just wondering though about this one thing she does, in case a girl who I may care about later does it to me as well...

She occasionally asks, "if you had a gf, would you do xyz?" And then she likes to add, "yeah, I know it's really hypothetical, but if you had a gf, what would you do if...?"

And stuff like that. She always wants my input/approval on tons of things.

I'm just wondering if that's some sort of a 'test' as you guys would call it. And if so, what should be a good response to that?

My apologies if this has been discussed before (I didn't know exactly how to search for such a topic).

Thanks in advance.

 

[Kings_royalty]

"if you had a gf, would you do xyz?"

I would say any one of these three...

'what do you mean, i already did xyz'.
'that depends, is xyz bi?'.
'why, do you want to see if you have a shot?'

in other words, don't answer hypothetical questions directly. If she's asking for 'real' advice, then give her your two cents, beyond that...have some fun with her questions. Girls know the real answers to these types of questions, she just wants to see how YOU will respond.

 

[Badmannaz]

no dude she's not testing you at all...she just wants your advice because your a guy...she's asking if you had a gf would you do curtain things to find out how you think because she probably thinks that all guys think alike...she trying to get inside the mind of her BF without talking to him..instead going to another guy for advice.

 

[Ace of Flames]

Or,

She might like you for some odd reason, and she's trying to cheat and see what you would do to her in certain situations before she does anything. The bytch.

lol.