"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it a Self confidence thing or am I nervous?

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Well I will start off that I am 16, and a sophomore in high school. It's not that girls don't want to talk to me, they just say I am really quiet. I get reallllly shy for some reason around girls I am intimidated by. I know a girl that really wants to hang around with me at lunch, but I don't want to say yeah yet because I start stuttering sometimes or I just stay very quiet. How can I get over this? I get lots of looks, but I am too shy to go up to a girl and talk to her if I don't have a reason too.




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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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I would also like to mention that I think it's just I am afraid of saying something stupid, I am not shaky or anything around them
 
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Yeah, it's natural around girls you are really attracted to. Just push yourself to talk man. The first few times you'll probably say dumb **** and knock ureself over the head for it but don't let it get you down. Just keep it up and you'll be cool and calm with these brids in no time!

Take it from me, a person who had social anxiety meaning I had you're reaction in situations with not only girls but with everyone, it'll get better.
 
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Originally posted by Prophett
Yeah, it's natural around girls you are really attracted to. Just push yourself to talk man. The first few times you'll probably say dumb **** and knock ureself over the head for it but don't let it get you down. Just keep it up and you'll be cool and calm with these brids in no time!

Take it from me, a person who had social anxiety meaning I had you're reaction in situations with not only girls but with everyone, it'll get better.
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That's exactly how it is. Once you first start talking and try to be more outgoing you'll probably fumble your words and say something stupid. But the more you do it, the better you get at it. Practice makes perfect.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Sir Lancelot
Practice makes perfect.
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This is exactly the case.
Practice.
Go to the mall and start coversations with the female employees there. they are paid to be nice to you. then talk to random shoppers, whether they be male, female, young, old, etc. Then start talkin to HBs. Practice.
 
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