she was engaged before and she is only 20 now. i'm just very curious as to why it didnt work and how she came to be so in love with someone that she was gonna marry him when she was only 19. normally i leave past relationships in the past and dont get into specifics about it but I'm genuinly curious. is it a mistake to ask her about it?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
is it a mistake to ask about a perticular past relationship?
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