"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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is it a good to be a "good guy"?

garruk

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my friend from high school was over the other day and we were just sitting around my apartment with some of my college chick-friends (platonic).

anwyasy we were talking about freshman girls and my HS friend said he was too old to hook up with them now. he breifly touched on how he wasnt interested and changed the subject but the girls seemed to eat it up.

does that have an effect on the girls' opinion of him? he was not trying to impress them because he isnt that kind of dude. but im just wondering if girls find this "honorable" behavior attractive.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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teacha

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NO/YES/MAYBE/MAYBE NOT/UNSURE etc.........

the bottom line is, it doesn't matter.
 

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I believe this is a moral issue.

I think women prefer non-murderers just as they prefer non-pedophiles.
 
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