"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it a good strategy for a lad to have his mother to mack women for him?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/int...on-date-girl-met-grocery-store-173900411.html

A mother from San Antonio is being deemed a “wing mom” after running into a group of girls at a grocery store who attend the same college as her son, and proceeding to show them pictures of him — unsubtly sharing his single relationship status.
One of the girls in the group, Charisma Valdez, took to her Twitter to give a shout-out to the boy later identified as Codey Gonzalez. Gonzalez’s mom, Patricia, apparently really sold him.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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redskinsfan92

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Yeah, moms play matchmaker sometimes. They want grandkids. Humans want to see their offspring producing offspring.
 

touma.akagi

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Honestly, it all just depends on how well your mother knows you. Either she keeps bringing along girls she wants you to be with, ones she knows nothing about, or ones you do actually have an interest in. It can be helpful, but you should also be finding women on your own.

If you're really having a tough time, though, going out with a woman your mom suggests even if you're not that into it could be beneficial if for no other reason than practice. In fact even better if she's interested in you more than you are in her, because that puts you in control of everything. And you've got little to lose by f u cking under those circumstances
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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