Is it a good idea to rely on the internet to meet girls?

[crackers444]

Hey, I am wondering is it a good idea to use the internet to meet girls or potential girlfriend? I am very shy and find it hard to get to know girls outside of the internet. I have met girl's from the net, however they didn't really seem like "dates", if indeed they were? They felt more like hanging out. I have never had a girlfriend! I can't understand why girl's don't show an interest in me! I am smart and good looking. Any advice would greatly be appreciated!

 

[Stuntmann]

No.

 

[Rex Man]

Well, b4 the cavalry releashes their anti-net wrath upon you, lemme say this: The net isn't a bad place to meet FBs or casuals because, you have so much to work from. You can get a sense of her personality.

That said, I wouldn't go out looking for my wife there. BTW, set the mood to fvck and fvck you shall.

 

[Jukeboxhero]

To "rely" upon? I would say no.

I think you could potentially meet some women on the internet, But I think it also depends on what site your on and what your motives are.

Regardless, I think you still need to get out and experience life to improve the skills you'll eventually need down the road...when you want to do something with the girl that doesn't involve the internet.

 

[Stuntmann]

Have a look at this post. Guy's #3 is how to use internet to meet girls.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131023

 

[Alkali]

No.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

So your very shy and its hard for you to meet girls outside the internet. Then, lets say you meet a woman on the internet. How are you gonna act when you meet her in person? Are you gonna be the Don Juan she has been looking for or the guy who has no game with women in real life other than the computer. First, I would learn everything you can and put it to use in the real world. Once you can start getting numbers and girls then, you can try the internet. But, to let you know... Most girls are just attention hors and flakes.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Never "rely" on any one thing.

 

[intel123]

So your very shy and its hard for you to meet girls outside the internet. Then, lets say you meet a woman on the internet. How are you gonna act when you meet her in person? Are you gonna be the Don Juan she has been looking for or the guy who has no game with women in real life other than the computer. First, I would learn everything you can and put it to use in the real world. Once you can start getting numbers and girls then, you can try the internet. But, to let you know... Most girls are just attention hors and flakes.

hes very right ... what are you gona do when u see her in real life.. if i was u ... just email couple girls u like u find intrest in . and see wat happens from there.

 

[KontrollerX]

Not good to totally rely on it but its one viable avenue that can get ya started if you're shy.

 

[shop until I die!]

Dont rely on the net, but use it. I've gotten with a few chicks by using the net, but you also need to supplement the net with some good old cold approaches at clubs and bars.

 

[COD]

ITS JUST ANOTHER WAY TO MEET WOMEN........becoming an NPUA(net pick up artist) is cool but it's the lazy man's way to meet chics. OUTSOURCING is a time saver but lacks the satisfaction of doing it all by yourself in the field at any time. A ton of people always choose the path of least resistance.....but in reality, transitioning from virtual to real live dates requires a skill set.

It has a few advantages...........don't have to leave home initially, screen your potential dates to your specific needs, u get time to think of what to say in an email. It's virtual, so you are not really rejected as one would be with a face to face encounter.

The dis-advantages: it does nothing to build your confidence in the real world, people dont always look exactly like thier photos, u got to go through steps.......write a profile,post a picture, sign up, write an email, wiat for an email, view their profile, get her digits, call her up, make a date, etc.

If you are just starting out...........I would reccomend you start with the very first step soooooooooo many forget....without it, everything else will not make sense.

1) INNER GAME-do research, buy a pick up book, read articles, get it going on INSIDE your head first, then practice your small talk skill-set in a mall with the hired guns

2) GOTO A SPEED DATING EVENT-great practice to fine tune your small talk skills. U can virtually try stuff out 15 times in a row and note what works and waht doesnt. This costs around 40 bucks but the lessons you get (cause everything is sped up) are priceless.

3) NET DATING-tons of free sites to choose from.......practice your banter with IM's, chat rooms, etc.

4) DAY GAME-school is a great place, bus stops, anywhere durring the day.

5) BARS/CLUBS/CONCERTS-get yourself a cell phone, study the mystery method, etc

practice the right way, daily, make a goal and constantly improve and write stuff down.

We all gotta start somewhere but the internet actually requires skills and like I said its the wimpy way out to meet women.

M

 

[War Against Betaism]

Even if you don't find any potential girlfriends, you can still build a network. I've met A LOT of people from the women I've met over the internet. While I still found dates on the net, I've gained more benefits by befriending their friends and expanding my network.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

No.

The internet is for desperate people, same goes for hoes.