"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it a date or just hanging out as friends?

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How do you know if youre getting dinner/coffee/whatever just as friends or a date?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mr. Debonaire

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just do your thing, confidence as always. make fun of her, flirt like a fiend, etc, etc.

If your doing things right, then it turns into a date, as she will start responding in the right way.
 

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Alright gotcha..

Thanks, I appreciate it
 

dannowillbookem

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you decide its a date. you dont let her decide that, what is she the man here?

you call it a date and its a date. if shes uncomfortable with that, then you saved yourself the time wasted getting together as "friends"
 

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How About You Stop Imagining What It Would Be Like And Go Approach And Experience It For Yourself, You God Damned Idiot.

Edit: Apparently the forum doesn't allow one to post in all caps.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Skilla_Staz

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Ah thank you Lik. You people over analyze WAY to f*cking much. Just do what you do baby.
 

hi2u

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Like everyone else says: MAKE IT A DATE! Use Kino and neg hits to draw a clear line, but most of all, don't stress about it. I know it's hard to tell yourself not to stress, but take deep breaths and REMEMBER: She is just one of a thousand women you will meet in the future. There is nothing special about her. You are the prize. If it doesn't work out, NEXT. Sarge on!
 

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LikRetsam said:
How About You Stop Imagining What It Would Be Like And Go Approach And Experience It For Yourself, You God Damned Idiot.

Edit: Apparently the forum doesn't allow one to post in all caps.
Was this directed towards me? I havent been imagining what it would be like to go on a date, i've been on them before. I dont know what the **** youre talking about to be honest.



Everyone thanks for the input, I appreciate it!!
 

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Tell her it's a date. As in;

"[organises something like coffee whatever]. It's a date ;) See you then."

Honesty's a good thing.
 
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